knotme Posted November 25, 2014 Share Posted November 25, 2014 I think I am in a bit of a trouble: I met this guy a few months ago. A friend of a friend. And lately we really hit it off. We spend a lot of time together. I spent the last few weekends entirely with him. We chat and text every day, we meet on any possible occasion, we go to movies together, gallery openings, museums, various events, to dinners, lunches, breakfast even, etc.. We went out drinking and dancing few times. Sometimes just the two of us, sometimes with other friends (no matter his friends or mine, we always invite each other). I am at his place very often, watching movies and sleeping there (separate beds mostly) every weekend for the last few weeks... Once he kissed me on the forehead, like a really strong long kiss, not just a little peck (which I read is a sign of high appreciation, respect, adoration...or isn't it?) we also slept together cuddling a few times, and we made out once and he fingered me a couple of times as well...(we never actually had sex). And when we are sleeping and cuddling, he always holds me so tight and presses me against his chest and it feels so good and so right...but the the next morning we are "just friends" again. And it's not like he is using me for sex, cuz we aren't actually having sex...And last weekend for the first time we slept together in his bed all night holding each other (didn't have sex) and before that we watched movies cuddling tightly and he fingered me again, but this time it was much more intense and serious, not just some little game, but like full on fingering till I came, and I tried to give him at least a handjob, but he pulled away...so it's not like he is using me... And we are really good friends by now - we get a long great, we always have a great time together, we joke around and make each other laugh and we can talk about loads of serious things too...and then there are all these cuddles and fingers and kisses (he kissed me on the cheek a couple of times last weekend, never kisses me on the lips though - WHY IS THAT? - except that one time when we made out being drunk...) So everything would be great except that by this time I really like him and have a major crush on him and I would love for this whole thing to turn out into something real, but I have no idea how I should handle all of this and even less ideas about what he thinks and what he wants... And he is a really really great guy, who I feel we could be great together, so I really don't want to screw this up.... Any ideas, suggestions advice and opinions are highly appreciated:) please, help me figure this all out. Link to post Share on other sites
Mister Zen Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 Tell him you like him. Duh! Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted November 26, 2014 Share Posted November 26, 2014 How old are you both? Virgins? Link to post Share on other sites
Author knotme Posted November 26, 2014 Author Share Posted November 26, 2014 we're not virgins, we're both old enough. i am 26 and hes a few years older. but I think we figured it out yesterday with another friend. he says that if the guy hasn't had sex for a long time he gets very nervous and it actually might be the case, since I know his last relationship ended a while ago and he is not one of those who just sleeps around with anyone.... Link to post Share on other sites
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