cdt76 Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 When it comes to dating we all meet people and for one reason or another, we tend to let our hearts dictate our actions rather than let logic lead us. I'm in that situation now and there is a HUGE internal war going on between the head and heart about what I should do. The head says walk and not look back. The heart says I can win her over. Sad part is that I know my head is right in this situation but the gravitational pull of her is so powerful. So help me do what my head says is the logical and smart thing.
DivorcedDad123 Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 Write down the pros and cons. For some reason,it helps me to write it down. Two columns. One Pro,one Cons. List everything you can think of in each. If the Cons column is greater,you know the answer. Focus on that,re-read it from time to time,when you're not wanting to follow your brain. Like a refresher course on why you shouldn't be with this person.
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