hea Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 It's a long story but I'll write the just. We were together 2years, he got a new job, left me for the girl he worked with. We didn't speak for a year and when we eventually did we got back together, for 10 months. Second time round was different. There was no intimacy on his part, and he just didn't seem interested after it was him who pursued me. we split up again for this reason. He said we were more like friends. He then kept messaging my for the next few months saying he missed me and didn't understand why we didn't work. Back in May he called me (when drunk) to say he wanted me back, but a week later he just said the same thing would happen again. So we left it, he got a new gf but that only lasted a month, and I got on with life. Then last week he again fb messages me drunk, as he has deleted my number. Said he still had feelings for me and always will, but he can't face hurting me again. He went on to explain that he had been depressed and since changing his job he is now back to the old him and if we tried again with him being in this situation maybe we might have worked. Yet is making no move to say he wants me back. I'm still in love with him, and i know the only way I'm going to get over him is to fall in love with someone else but it's easier said then done. I know people still get in touch with exs years later to make them feel better for a bit of attention (which I know is really selfish) but why would he say he still has feelings for me? Surely no one can be that mean?
PegNosePete Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 Then last week he again fb messages me He wants to keep you on the back burner, in case things don't work out with his current gf, he can get a bit of slap and tickle. Block him. Problem solved.
Author hea Posted November 25, 2014 Author Posted November 25, 2014 He's not with that gf, he's single. Like I said that relationship lasted a month.
Zahara Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 (edited) He's not with that gf, he's single. Like I said that relationship lasted a month. He keeps leaving you for other women and then coming back to you when nothing is going on in his life. What do "feelings" mean when he does absolutely nothing about it, but instead date other women? Don't waste your time on flip floppers. Edited November 25, 2014 by Zahara
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