CaliGirl2888 Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 I've emailed this guy back and fourth for a week then we started texting each other for a while. He works in the entertainment business, so he has a successful career. I guess I was eager to seem interesting so I did sext him & send nudes *cringes* which he initiated. Then 2 days later he sent me a text ''how are you?'' I replied ''good, still adjusting to the move : / and you?'' he never responded. I feel violated (though I did it to myself) Its been 2-3 months and he obviously is uninterested in me, and I feel hurt that I was sort of ignored. I feel like a dumb w**** and that's so not me. My self esteem went down a bit. I guess I was a boredom breaker for him? Now I have a permanent pit in my stomach knowing I did something stupid and I was kind of used. How can I move past this? Don't know if it matters but I'm 19 and he's in he's 40.
SycamoreCircle Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 How can you move past this? Your nudity is nothing to be ashamed of. He doesn't care, neither should you. He is already looking for his next "score." In the future, do not tangle with 40 year old men. Try to find men more your age and get to know them before revealing intimate parts, inside and outside. Also, offering your youth and beauty(and sex) to some so-called industry professional is probably not going to get you anywhere. Sure, there's a million "casting couch" stories from the entertainment industry. But the industry has changed a lot. Some rules have remained the same, though. It is luck, perseverance and talent. In that order. 2
ScreaminEagle Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 I've emailed this guy back and fourth for a week then we started texting each other for a while. He works in the entertainment business, so he has a successful career. I guess I was eager to seem interesting so I did sext him & send nudes *cringes* which he initiated. Then 2 days later he sent me a text ''how are you?'' I replied ''good, still adjusting to the move : / and you?'' he never responded. I feel violated (though I did it to myself) Its been 2-3 months and he obviously is uninterested in me, and I feel hurt that I was sort of ignored. I feel like a dumb w**** and that's so not me. My self esteem went down a bit. I guess I was a boredom breaker for him? Now I have a permanent pit in my stomach knowing I did something stupid and I was kind of used. How can I move past this? Don't know if it matters but I'm 19 and he's in he's 40. In reality, your nudity is nothing to be ashamed of, however with that being said, those pictures you sent him could very easily wind up over the world wide web. The age difference and the way he acted leads me to believe he was a big perv who used your pictures for his spank bank and had no intention of having anything meaningful w/u.
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