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If you want to eventually date him then why not? other wise everything you have done up until this point is for noting no...go for it..good luck :D

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I asked him via text. He said no. I tried. Nothing else I tried in the past worked either. Ah well, love makes you fat anyway.

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Perfect example of why you should wait to be asked.

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Perfect example of why you should wait to be asked.

Yeah but she could have been wating for another few monthes or for ever to just get the same response yea it sucks and im sorry OP but least you know and can move on..

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I saw other comments, and yes I agreed the whole time that the woman should be asked but I decided for once to take the bull by the horns and try. I texted him earlier that I hoped they were getting on without me (as I no longer teach at the school), he said it's not the same and the kid who made the crude comment said something equally crude to him today. I texted back his attitude will get him far in life, he said I know. I said I am going to go out on a limb, he asked go for it. I said I wondered if you'd like to hang out sometime, he said sure but he wasn't interested in me romantically. Sorry if that's too blunt. I said back "Well love makes you fat anyway doesn't it?" Nothing after that. Ah well, I tried. And I guess I can assure myself that I was brave and never wondered what if. I deleted the thread and won't contact him again.

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I saw other comments, and yes I agreed the whole time that the woman should be asked but I decided for once to take the bull by the horns and try. I texted him earlier that I hoped they were getting on without me (as I no longer teach at the school), he said it's not the same and the kid who made the crude comment said something equally crude to him today. I texted back his attitude will get him far in life, he said I know. I said I am going to go out on a limb, he asked go for it. I said I wondered if you'd like to hang out sometime, he said sure but he wasn't interested in me romantically. Sorry if that's too blunt. I said back "Well love makes you fat anyway doesn't it?" Nothing after that. Ah well, I tried. And I guess I can assure myself that I was brave and never wondered what if. I deleted the thread and won't contact him again.

 

 

I wouldn't feel bad about it. At least you tried

 

an attempted shot is always better than no shot

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