havocser Posted November 24, 2014 Posted November 24, 2014 (edited) This is kind of the second half of this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/502917-unsure Anyways, so he texted me and we talked back and fourth for a bit about nonsense, how the rest of our weekends were and if either of us felt awkward given the situation he's my brothers friend. I told him I thought he was a cool guy and that I wouldn't mind hanging out again. He texted me back (5 hours later) saying that it was just kind of a hook up but that he wanted to go out again.. What does that mean? Most of his texts were one sentence texts and I kept mine to a minimum too, I know guys don't generally like when girls speak in paragraph form over text - even though they know we always have tons to talk about! - haha On Friday he had promised me a strip tease but I couldn't seem to get my stereo working for some reason so I reminded him that I would be awaiting my favor, he said "haha! I did say that!" I felt like maybe I was making him feel uncomfortable and I'm not one to shy away from being upfront so I asked and he said that no, he had just been napping and was "still trying to put his life together" - what? Anyways, I told him I had to go to bed and that I hoped to see him soon, he said alright, take care! I feel like he's giving me very mixed signals. It was just a hook up but he wants to hang out again - he wants to **** again? I'm not opposed to either as we had great sex but I thought it was more because of how well we got along and how much we had in common. I don't get this guy. Edited November 25, 2014 by havocser
Toodaloo Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 Sounds to me like he has a few issues he is dealing with and wants them out of the way first. I think that if you carry on "hooking up" then you may become emotionally attached to this guy so personally I wouldn't. Keep in touch, keep it low key and no committal for the time being. Take your time and just get to know him better. Good luck.
Thegreatestthing Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 He just wants sex,he will pump and dump you a few times and you'll be left feeling confused and used. Delete his texts,find something else to pursue,find other boys. There are boys out there that would love to date you. This is kind of the second half of this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/502917-unsure Anyways, so he texted me and we talked back and fourth for a bit about nonsense, how the rest of our weekends were and if either of us felt awkward given the situation he's my brothers friend. I told him I thought he was a cool guy and that I wouldn't mind hanging out again. He texted me back (5 hours later) saying that it was just kind of a hook up but that he wanted to go out again.. What does that mean? Most of his texts were one sentence texts and I kept mine to a minimum too, I know guys don't generally like when girls speak in paragraph form over text - even though they know we always have tons to talk about! - haha On Friday he had promised me a strip tease but I couldn't seem to get my stereo working for some reason so I reminded him that I would be awaiting my favor, he said "haha! I did say that!" I felt like maybe I was making him feel uncomfortable and I'm not one to shy away from being upfront so I asked and he said that no, he had just been napping and was "still trying to put his life together" - what? Anyways, I told him I had to go to bed and that I hoped to see him soon, he said alright, take care! I feel like he's giving me very mixed signals. It was just a hook up but he wants to hang out again - he wants to **** again? I'm not opposed to either as we had great sex but I thought it was more because of how well we got along and how much we had in common. I don't get this guy.
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