djxcrx88 Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 hey ppl, im new here, i got ONE BIG ASS PROBLEM, im what u would say a lil picky when it comes to girls, im mean really picky. well my point is that ive been single for wuite some time, ive had a few girls i went out with but quickly decided to end it cuz they werent anything like what i was looking for. Another thing about me is that im the "LOVE lookin" kinda guy, not sure if there are many guys like that left anymore, but wtv, im just lookin for the right person u know, the girl of my dreams, that kinda thing. Well just a few weeks ago i met this amazing girl online, and ill tell u, SHES EXACTLY WHAT IM LOOKIN 4. we had almost the same EXACT interests, i mean ive been lookin for a girl like this forever and i finaly found her. So in the beginning she would always msg me on msn, i knew she was interested, cuz she was the one messeging me every chance shed get, and she would stay up sooooooo late talkin to me, even tho she had school the next day and that her parents we're strict about her stayin up late. after that we met, it was a fairly fun night. we continued talkin some more the following weeks and just last week i started talkin about the future and ralationships and stuff, but she ended up saying that she just didnt wanna be with someone and she was gonna be alone forever, well i know thats kind of a harsh thing to say!!! well i dunno what quite happened but her ex must have done somethin really bad, i didnt ask her, but IM REALLY CONFUSED, why would she give me sooo much attention, and stay up late to talk to me, and blush so much everytime id compliment her, and when i ask her out she tells me that!!! PLZ SOMEONE HELP ME, i need to understand. THANKS PPL!
Hund1976 Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 Maybe she met someone else? Who knows, people do strange things, I've had this happen to where I meet a girl and everything is cool and she does a 180 out of the blue. Just chalk it up to her being a wierdo and find a new girl. Don't talk about relationships so soon either. Wait until you've gone on a lot of dates and have had some good action.
Lin Drew Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 maybe she lost interest in you... You know, that kind of sh** happen, so don't blame yourself... But be sincere to yourself and move on, if she told you she's not interested on having something with you (or anybody) just turn around and keep on looking. Now, if you really like this girl, wait for her, fight for her and stuff... You choose, but all I can say it's this: It's all up to you, but you gotta open your eyes and don't lie to yourself if she has no interest... I'm sure you deserve someone who can be as interested as you are.
HoldOn Posted April 11, 2005 Posted April 11, 2005 Alright, you have two choices 1.) Accept that she is telling the truth and doesn't want a relationship and give it up. 2.) fight for her. Call her. Do NOT e-mail or text message or IM. Call her. Ask her out on a date IN ADVANCE. Do not call her at 11:00 at night to come over and watch a movie. Bring her flowers and be on time. If she says no, for no good reason, then she is not interested and that's all you got. Sorry, man. Also, I want to point out that you don't have to have the EXACT same interests in order to date someone! In fact, that probably makes for more problems. Wouldn't you want someone who can learn from you and from whom you can learn from.
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