ConfusedHere1 Posted November 23, 2014 Posted November 23, 2014 Friday night I had a casual male friend over. A rebound of sorts, even though he and I had talked several times about it being a casual arrangement and neither of us wanting to get into relationships since we both recently ended long-term relationships. Thursday and Friday my ex had texted me after not hearing from me for awhile. I broke no-contact then and answered how I was doing and so on. Then I got drunk Friday night and while the casual FWB was in the bathroom, I texted my ex: "Guess what.... I have someone else over but I miss you." He responded: "I miss you more. Who's over? You hurting my feelings?" I said: "Some dude I met at Halloween. Can I call you tomorrow?" He said "Ew. Yeah." I said I wasn't going to do anything with the dude because I really don't have feelings for him and I'm not in the sexy mood. He said "Ew again ;)" I said "Well, I'll talk to you tomorrow." Yesterday, I tried calling my ex around 3pm. It just kept ringing and didn't even go to his voicemail so I just hung up. I didn't try calling back or texting him, nor did he try to return my call or text me. Now it is Sunday night and I am wondering if I just gave my ex an ego-boost knowing that I miss him and he's not really missing me, but maybe he was drunk too when he said that? :/
jackinthebox1 Posted November 24, 2014 Posted November 24, 2014 Not sure why u suddenly wanted to tell him you were ****ing someone but if you are playing those games then expect to be blanked. On the other hand though you have done yourself a favor and most likely finalised any reconciliation you had there. So just carry on doing what you are doing now
Dontfindme Posted November 24, 2014 Posted November 24, 2014 Do you want to move on? Then stop assessing your actions, and his, and trying to figure out who's missing the other more. Don't play games. Yes, you messed up, but ultimately, who cares what he thinks? You guys are over. Block him.
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