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I can't get over my ex

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After 3 months of dating, my ex said she wanted to stop seeing me about 3 weeks ago (after saying that she had to take a few days to think about how she felt about me). We saw each other almost every day when we were together.

 

I've been going on first dates with girls that I've met from online dating, but nobody compares to her and I just can't stop thinking about her. I was so sure that she was the one, and she said that she felt that I was the one during most of our relationship. I'm still not sure what changed during the last 2 weeks that made her change her mind.

 

I'm really debating texting her in a week and telling her how I feel, but I know it would probably just drive her further away. She stopped seeing me for a reason. I have a HUGE empty hole feeling in my stomach constantly, and there is no way I will ever find a girl like her again. I've just been in a state of depression recently and I just don't know what to do anymore. There is no way I can block her number, because I secretly am hoping she will text me one day. I don't want to beg for her to take me back, and I don't want to be her backup plan...but maybe since she has had time to think by herself her feelings changed?

 

Have any of you ever been dumped, then contacted your ex after a few weeks and gotten back together?

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Very rare.

Very, very rare.

'Hen's teeth' rare.

 

First of all - stop dating. You're not actually dating, you're 'in-filling', trying to replace, compensate, and comparing is grossly unfair on the ladies you're dating. You're not giving them the chance they deserve, or the partner they are looking for.

 

Secondly, read the No Contact Guide and do as it says.

 

This WILL get better. But you have to do some leg-work.

Relief doesn't come to you.

 

You have to make the effort.

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You are right...maybe I should just stop dating until I am completely over her. Because obviously I am not, and I am just trying to fill in the hole in my stomach.

 

Thanks for the advice.

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