Reysa09 Posted November 23, 2014 Posted November 23, 2014 Why won't he take me back? Okay my ex told me he was done with me. Quick run down...he's legally separated (to start with) had major trust issues from the beginning. We rushed into a relationship but I wasn't sure if he was being 100 about everything so I kinda kept my options open...but we were still dating. We broke up because he ended up going thru my phone so while we were on break I had messed with someone else and didn't tell him...we ended up getting back together and broke up again because I showed up unannounced to his house and one of his "female friends" was there with her kids. So we still kept in contact after wards. He claimed he didn't trust me and he wanted me to start being honest with him so I started confessing. When I told him about the dude I messed with he completely cut me off...blocked me and told me he didn't want anything else to do with me. He may write an email every other day saying how I'm not loyal, I'm a hoe and I'm never going to change and I'm a liar. I never asked this man for anything...not a dime. When he needed help I'd give him money every now and then but It's just one big *** mess. I don't even know what to do I just know I care about him and I want to work things out. Now he says he's done and he blocked me on his phone and won't say a word to me U think there's a way I can get him back ???
elaine567 Posted November 23, 2014 Posted November 23, 2014 Why won't he take me back? Okay my ex told me he was done with me. Quick run down...he's legally separated (to start with) had major trust issues from the beginning. We rushed into a relationship but I wasn't sure if he was being 100 about everything so I kinda kept my options open...but we were still dating. We broke up because he ended up going thru my phone so while we were on break I had messed with someone else and didn't tell him...we ended up getting back together and broke up again because I showed up unannounced to his house and one of his "female friends" was there with her kids. So we still kept in contact after wards. He claimed he didn't trust me and he wanted me to start being honest with him so I started confessing. When I told him about the dude I messed with he completely cut me off...blocked me and told me he didn't want anything else to do with me. He may write an email every other day saying how I'm not loyal, I'm a hoe and I'm never going to change and I'm a liar. I never asked this man for anything...not a dime. When he needed help I'd give him money every now and then but It's just one big *** mess. I don't even know what to do I just know I care about him and I want to work things out. Now he says he's done and he blocked me on his phone and won't say a word to me U think there's a way I can get him back ??? In a word NO. And you do not really want to get back with him either He called you a hoe, but he is probably messing around with other lady friends and is not even divorced. A great excuse for you to run and never look back. You can do so much better than this.
KatZee Posted November 23, 2014 Posted November 23, 2014 Wait, so, you cheated on this guy, didn't even confess, he had to find out, and you some how think that because you've given him money and have never asked him for money that he should take you back? Why do you think money has any factor in this at all? He doesn't trust you, the end. I don't know many guys who will take back a cheater. 1
loversquarrel Posted November 24, 2014 Posted November 24, 2014 This is confusing....You said in your synopsis that you were on a break when you messed with another guy, yet you said you cheated? Well looks like he may have met a friend as well while you were on a break...maybe but to little info to tell. I think there is just too much crap going on and early on for this to go anywhere. Time to move on, especially seeing as how he has made it quite clear he is finished with you.
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