Invictus01 Posted November 23, 2014 Posted November 23, 2014 I was dumped last weekend and posted a couple of Facebook updates to that effect (no worries, we aren't Facebook friends or have mutual friends on Facebook who could relay to her how much she hurt me, we have been NC since Monday) Since those two Facebook posts, I have had 3 female friends approach me with definite degree of interest. The latest one - a 4 texts text at 2:30 am last night from a girl I haven't talk to in ages telling me how she has been thinking about me and all that stuff. We never dated, never had any romantic interest, so while it if surely flattering and ego boosting, I don't even know how to respond to that. Now take this and imagine your last ex, who just told you he or she wants to get away from you, gets that kind of stuff from you, whether it is texts or calls or letters. How will she respond to that and what will she think of you? Yeah, now go ahead and delete her number before it is too late. 1
LottaLover Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 Ok wait, delete whos number? the friend who text you at 2:30am or your ex? Same thing happened to me, except I didnt post anything about breaking up out of nowhere two people I used to date started texting me. I even went out with one to dinner last weekend thinking this is what I need to get my mind of my ex and our recent breakup but nope.... I felt horrible the entire time. Even when the other ones are texting me and interested saying nice flattering things it doesnt matter, my phone goes off and the first hope I have is its him but its always the others.... What's the harm in having a nice chat with one of them, didnt really work for me at the moment lol but could for you? things happen for a reason....
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