Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 I think woman out there can relate on some level so I'm going to spill anyway.... I was out last night with mates. My friend has a crush on her. He won't really have much of a chance with her unfortunately for him because she doesn't feel the same way. All three of us were out last night and we got talking to this guy in a burger joint who had just come back from a date. We got talking and talking about what he's up to. He seems nice enough. I thought he was really cute. People say I'm really attractive, but I don't ask out much, and when I do it's always shocking, surprising and a little bit scary. I'm out going enough so I don't think it's a personality thing. Anyway my friend is gorgeous, and he asked her for her number and a date in front of my friend and me. My friend's energy levels plummeted afterwards. I knew he was a bit upset afterwards. And I was just a bit jealous, just because I didn't asked out. In reality, it's not a big deal really, as there are plenty of others in the sea I just hate being the friend that never gets asked out while their friend always gets chosen first. Is there anything that I can do, that might up my chances? I've never been the one to ask out a guy but perhaps I should? I think sometimes I just can't be bothered competing. What can people offer me in the way of advice? what do I need to do? Is not about competing with a friend, it's just about finding someone and having someone that likes you that you like back! cheers xoxox
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