beauty_lover98 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) I am 18 and a guy from school asked me to be his girlfriend and I told I told him, "I need time to think about it". He told me that it was fine and to consider it. A few minutes later he sent me a text saying that he loved me and called me babe, beautiful and princess and told me that he makes me really happy. I told him that i dont want to date him and that im not ready and all sorts of other stuff, i wasn't harsh but i still feel like i hurt him because im the only girl who he likes. I feel horrible! but i just dont want to date him! When I'm in my 20's and closer to marriage age, I want to start real dating and possibly courtship. Right now I'm just honestly plain not ready and I want to enjoy my freedom and being single! I can't stand hurting him... I really hurt him because he posted a photo on social media about me that I broke his heart and I feel really bad. I honestly can't imagine myself spending the rest of my life with him but he treats me with respect but he's really not my type. Is this the right thing for me to do? Edited November 22, 2014 by beauty_lover98
smackie9 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 You are not the cause of his pain, he did this on his own. You had no control over him having feelings for you. To be hurt is only human, he will go through the natural process of healing and will find his one true love someday. You just stick with your expectation of what you want. 1
elaine567 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 Is this the right thing for me to do? Yes. i just dont want to date him! That is how YOU feel and that is the most important thing here. Dating is about finding someone who likes you and who you like back. No-one should go on dates with people, they do not WANT to date.
Tayken Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 @OP....Karma will take care of it, so you don't have to
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 I think it's commendable for you to want to start dating and courting close to marriageable age. I wish more people would consider that. Anyway, I think it was rather stupid of him to declare his feelings after you said I'd have to think about it. People who are all for the rush are people you have to look out for. You did nothing wrong. He's an 18 year old kid. He'll get over it. There is no reason to feel guilty for no t being attracted to him. You did the right thing considering he was all the while ready to blurt out his feelings without considering yours first. No use crying over split milk. Seriously.
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