manny1 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 Hi I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. We've been meeting up, though it seems to be me who does most of the initiating. She is a bit old fashioned in regards to dating so that may be why. I want to ask her where she feels this is going as I like her and want to progress to a relationship. Any advice if this is too soon or how I should do this is appreciated. Thanks
angel.eyes Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 You'll get a range of opinions. Personally, I like when a guy raises the topic early. With most of my long-term relationships, it happened around the one month mark. There are many ways to demonstrate interest. I may not plan dates early on, but I do lots of other little things that signal my interest. Is it possible you might be overlooking some of her efforts? Rather than asking her where things are going (which comes across as passive), perhaps be more assertive and express what you want. In your shoes, I might say something like: I enjoy the time I spend with you, and I like you. I'm interested in progressing things and exploring a relationship. How do you feel about that? It can be scary to lay it on the line, but it's important to make sure you're on the same page and want the same things. 1
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