Evening Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) I am with a guy who deals with his own problems. He is perfect for me and stuff, but he is too far away and I need someone by my side every day. Feels like I am not honest with myself. My whole body aches. Sometimes I think that I should end this relationship and focus on what is around me in real life rather than spending my time with someone who is far away and how a lot of things to do. I like him as he is, but at the same time when I am totally completely honest with myself I feel like I am hurting myself to the deepest core because all of my needs are not met. I told him that I hate sleeping alone and I am not sure how long I can handle this. At the same time I do not see many suitable people around me in this area who I could start a relationship with. I do not know what I should do. I like this guy, but he is too far away, I do not have enough many to party every day and have one night stands every day and there are not anyone near in my area who could suit me. At the same time I see that there can be a light at the end of the tunnel, because there are two options. One is that I leave this relationship and start to focus on my energy to people who are around me and maybe or definitely make new friends, the other is that I do not make any changes, that I keep communicating with him, at the same time trying to be active as I possibly can. It just feels bad. What should i do? I feel that I am not happy and I am so impatient. Does he even care about me? We have expressed our feelings and its mutual, but he is just so far away and I miss him holding and kissing me, I miss holding hands with him, I miss seeing his eyes and smile as I wake up, I miss cuddling with him.. I just so deeply miss him. Edited November 22, 2014 by Evening
J2911 Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 Is relocating on either part an option soon or in the future ?
justwhoiam Posted December 6, 2014 Posted December 6, 2014 Break up with him. You are not in love with him. Distance just made it clearer. 1
Els Posted December 7, 2014 Posted December 7, 2014 If you are staying in this R just because 'you have no money to party everyday and have one night stands anyway', I really don't think this R is right for you.
Recommended Posts