poppy1 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 I made friends with a guy at the gym. We talk a lot, text each other everyday and go out together a lot. He hugs me, touches me, and pays for my drinks. I've always been just friendly back as I think he is adorable and kind. I really like him but probably as a friend as he is 5 years younger. I didn't tell him I had a boyfriend as I wanted to get to know him. Recently my bf and he bumped into each other. I introduced him to m bf. he seemed a bit shocked that I had a bf. my bf and I don't get along well. I didn't really speak to my bf. my guy friend asks if everything is ok. He still asks me out and texts me and we had breakfast together. Ok it's slightly weirder now he knows I have a bf. do you think he is waiting for me to break up with my bf or does he genuinely just want to be my friend and isn't bothered if I have a bf or not? He's 23 and I'm 27. I'm thinking of breaking up with my current bf but it will be a long process as we have been together for 6 years.
NJ123 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) I made friends with a guy at the gym. We talk a lot, text each other everyday and go out together a lot. He hugs me, touches me, and pays for my drinks. I've always been just friendly back as I think he is adorable and kind. I really like him but probably as a friend as he is 5 years younger. I didn't tell him I had a boyfriend as I wanted to get to know him. Recently my bf and he bumped into each other. I introduced him to m bf. he seemed a bit shocked that I had a bf. my bf and I don't get along well. I didn't really speak to my bf. my guy friend asks if everything is ok. He still asks me out and texts me and we had breakfast together. Ok it's slightly weirder now he knows I have a bf. do you think he is waiting for me to break up with my bf or does he genuinely just want to be my friend and isn't bothered if I have a bf or not? He's 23 and I'm 27. I'm thinking of breaking up with my current bf but it will be a long process as we have been together for 6 years. Yep, break up with your bf. You already are emotionally cheating on him & he deserves better. If you don't you'll eventually physically cheat on him too. He deserves better than what you could give him. I mean your hanging out with this guy behind your bf's back, I mean seriously? What are you even doing? You shouldn't be in any relationship at all. This other guy obviously doesn't give a **** about your relationship after finding out about your bf, he definitely sounds like a great guy..... Edited November 22, 2014 by NJ123
SpiralOut Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) Your guy friend acted shocked because normally a girl with a boyfriend doesn't allow a guy to act that way with her. You two don't act like you're just friends. He might have even thought he was dating you. Either end things with your boyfriend, or put some boundaries in place with this guy - no more touching, no more letting him buy you drinks. You don't want to be that girl who cheats on her boyfriend, or at least I hope not. Edited November 22, 2014 by SpiralOut
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