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How do I approach relationship commitment with bf?


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Hi everyone. Not sure how to approach this. I have been dating my BF for about three months. Good relationship and all that stuff. I am at a point in my life where the clock is ticking and I am ready for a serious relationship. I would like to discuss this with my man but at the same time I do not want to scare him off. I basically just need to know what he wants because I dont want to waste time. Any suggestions on how to approach this without looking like a psycho biatch. Thanks

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That's a pretty tough one, 3 months isn't that long to be dating. Maybe you could ask him questions like what he thinks his life will be like a year from now or something like that. Have you had a talk already about being exclusive with eachother? That would seem reasonable to me. But I wouldn't ask anything like "do you see us getting married" or anything like that yet.

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That is a tuff one. I need a little more info. Are you exlusive? When you talk about future plans (whether they are days or months down the road) does he use "when" or "if"?

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