Beatles4 Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Well basically I went to this birthday party, a friends GF birthday party, I met this girl, spoke to her but I kind of chatted her up a bit, well anyway got her added on facebook. She soon left the party, we were talking all night on messenger, before goin bed, next day chatted to her alk morning before pickin her up from somewhere, took her back to mine where she lured me into bed! We had sex for like two hours!!! This confuses me, as I have been going through life thinking no girl likes me in this way! So this was my first real sexual experiance! We was texting each other for days. I am confused to if she likes me or used me for sex? Like she woukd stalk me on facebook or when I saw her again (she came to my flat but with her kid) we hugged for ages stufg like this lead me to believe she likes me. But I went out with a load of mateds at halloween she said she didnt want to go out asked me if I was out on the pull I said no she said I should be as am single! A few days ago she asked if I was broady I said yeah maybe(am 26 would love to have a kid) says to me I should get a myself a misses, then says that by 26 I should have life sorted! Just left my role with this company(was self employed) to set up my own business. I have alot on my plate. Iv not texted her since iv not actually seen her for 3 weeks, I know everyone says its hard as she have a kid but I just really confused.
preraph Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Sounds like she's in a big hurry to get a man and that's very likely because she has trouble making ends meet with the kid and all. I mean, she brought the kid along right away, and that is not advisable. You're not supposed to introduce kids to a bunch of what will prove to be transitory men. So she's not showing very good sense on any number of fronts. I wouldn't let her push me into anything. You just move at your pace, whatever that is. I know she's your only one, but that does NOT mean she's the right one. If she's moving too fast or you're uncomfortable with the situation, just tell her you're still young and not ready for all that. I think it's rude of her to try to tell you at 26 that you should have your life sorted! You certainly should not. You should be relatively carefree at 26 and that usually means not taking on a pushy woman looking for a quick husband.
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