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I'm doing the online dating thing right now. Going on about 2 or 3 dates a week. Most haven't gone past the first date. There is one guy who I've been on a couple dates with who I'm actually interested in. We had a great first few dates, at least I thought. It seemed like there was mutual attraction and we had a lot in common. After this last date on Sunday, it kinda changed. His contact has all but gone away. I finally heard from him on Wednesday just joking about the weather in Buffalo since I lived there for awhile. It was kind of a short interaction. I finally just asked if he wanted to get together again. He said the next week will be too crazy for him because his work schedule. So I took that as a sign that he didn't want to see me again. A short time later he did say that it wasn't a no, he would just have to see how the week goes. Before he was making plans with me almost right after our dates and seemed more keen on seeing me. Am I really overthinking this or has he already lost interest?

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Sounds like he's keeping you as an option.

I'd move on.

 

Oh, well... next! :-)

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