beauty_lover98 Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 I am 18 and I meet this guy from school about 2 weeks ago. He is interested in me. About a week ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no, I rather would be friends. I told him I am seeing other guys also and he kinda got mad but got over it quickly. The reason why I am seeing other guys also is because I am trying to figure out which guy I like the best. Then I hung out with him at school the 2nd time today and I'm kinda having 2nd thoughts about him. He isn't really that good looking but I love his personality. He is a really sweet guy. Should I continue being friends with him? I want to be in a relationship but i'm worried if I date him, I may see other guys also because I am attracted to other guys. What would you do if you were me? I am so confused.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Don't worry, this is all normal. It'ls just life honestly...You're going to meet people throughout your life that you may or may not want to be ''together'' with long term...This is literally what dating is all about, It's about finding out as much as you can about the other person and the determining if the two of you are compatible. The import thing about dating is to remember that when you become exclusive with someone you are with them and them only (Unless otherwise specified, such as in an open relationship) But don't worry about that right now...You are in a position where you can go on dates with these different guys and decide which one you like to be around the most.
dragonfire13 Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 You did the right thing - if you're unsure that you like him and will be tempted to date other guys that youre definitely more attracted to, let him find someone who is attracted to him.
RockyCruz Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 I am 18 and I meet this guy from school about 2 weeks ago. He is interested in me. About a week ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no, I rather would be friends. I told him I am seeing other guys also and he kinda got mad but got over it quickly. The reason why I am seeing other guys also is because I am trying to figure out which guy I like the best. Then I hung out with him at school the 2nd time today and I'm kinda having 2nd thoughts about him. He isn't really that good looking but I love his personality. He is a really sweet guy. Should I continue being friends with him? I want to be in a relationship but i'm worried if I date him, I may see other guys also because I am attracted to other guys. What would you do if you were me? I am so confused. Nah, you're solid mate. What you're feeling and doing is very natural. It's how it goes in dating. You want to explore, find out who is right fit for you and you can't really go off promising your life to someone and all that. No need to be confused. It's very simple. Just do what you already being doing. Be very open to the person and say, you're not wanting this or that. By being honest up front, as you have done, it removes the hassle of trying to pretend, lying, hiding this and that. So just be upfront and don't make any commitment promises. Make it very clear from beginning.
fred123 Posted November 22, 2014 Posted November 22, 2014 I am 18 and I meet this guy from school about 2 weeks ago. He is interested in me. About a week ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no, I rather would be friends. I told him I am seeing other guys also and he kinda got mad but got over it quickly. The reason why I am seeing other guys also is because I am trying to figure out which guy I like the best. Then I hung out with him at school the 2nd time today and I'm kinda having 2nd thoughts about him. He isn't really that good looking but I love his personality. He is a really sweet guy. Should I continue being friends with him? I want to be in a relationship but i'm worried if I date him, I may see other guys also because I am attracted to other guys. What would you do if you were me? I am so confused. looks beat personality every time! straight from the horses mouth
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