Girlboots Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Ohhhhhhh my gosh yall...I can't even.. There literally has been ONE GUY MY ENTIRE LIFE where I was like "I could see myself with him!" ONE GUY! We never were more than friends, but we'd cuddle and makeout like we were. I fell hard for him. So freaking hard. Things became bad..he started playing me and treating me like crap. Using me..making me feel like I was annoying and he just wanted to get rid of me. Did I take the hint? NOPE! Just kept being a clingy little idiot. Eventually things became bad and he completely rejected my offer to work things out and I definitely took that hint and we never spoke again. That was last year. I still freaking thought about this guy every single day. I thought "maybe we will be together!" Nope. This guy is getting married. He's known this girl for a year, and he's marrying her. I've been trying for TWO YEARS to just be in a relationship with him and failed, AND THAT GIRL PROBABLY DIDN'T EVEN TRY. SHE PROBABLY WAS JUST REALLY BEAUTIFUL AND HE MELTED IN HER HAND. I spent all night crying and now it's 8am and I haven't slept because I'm too concerned about this freaking situation like an idiot. He's living his life and he's happy, and sitting here being miserable. Maybe I'm upset because I feel like he doesn't deserve to find someone and be happy after the way he treated me. Maybe I feel like life is just so freaking unfair. I'm turning into a really bitter person and I hate it....obviously I'm mentally unstable right now yall. This sucks and I feel like moving to california and living on a beach with a dog.
PegNosePete Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 he started playing me and treating me like crap. Using me..making me feel like I was annoying and he just wanted to get rid of me. Wow, what a "great guy" he is...! Sounds like you dodged a bullet here. How do you even know he's getting married? Why are you having anything to do with him after he treated you like this? Maybe I feel like life is just so freaking unfair. I've been over the terms and conditions several times and can't find the clause that says it's meant to be!
d0nnivain Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 hugs They are probably just more compatible. It's Friday. Take the weekend. Cry your eyes out if you must. Drown your sorrows in a safe way. But come Monday you need to pull yourself together. Logically, you were never with him. There are billions of men on earth & thousands within your area. You are compatible with more than him. You will find somebody once you let go of the idea that he's all there is.
Author Girlboots Posted November 21, 2014 Author Posted November 21, 2014 Wow, what a "great guy" he is...! Sounds like you dodged a bullet here. How do you even know he's getting married? Why are you having anything to do with him after he treated you like this? I've been over the terms and conditions several times and can't find the clause that says it's meant to be! I probably did You will find somebody once you let go of the idea that he's all there is. I don't know why, but I found comfort in that statement right there. Thank you! I really do need to let go of that idea! 1
ExpatInItaly Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 You'll be ok in the long-run. This discovery might even help you finally move on. Hanging on to hope when there wasn't a future together is preventing you from even meeting other guys and being able to really open up to them. I would also venture that you actually don't know if this guy really was a long-term possibility, because you don't know what you'd have been like in a relationship together. If he messed with your head, he clearly wasn't the one. By the way, how did you find out he's getting married?
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