Supernaught16 Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 My Gf of two years, I suspected lying and cheating. I gave her an oppurtunity to come clean tell me the truth and we will start over, no hard feelings. 2 responses... 1) I dont start over 2) She told the truth. The truth was... When we first met, she had a different bf the other truth, she has had a different boy friend after that on the side for the past year. I gave her an ultimatum. Him or me. If she calls him, even if he calls her by accident were done forever. So if she had to change her number if she had t prevent that, thats what she had to do. When I was at work, she asked when I would be off. I got home. I lost my phone in my truck, I used her phone to call mine to look for it. Boom. I saw she called him and got picked up from him while I was at work and when I came back she was drunk and possibly on meth as well (I know nothing about meth). So, just like I promissed, were done forever. Dropped her off at her parents house and never saw her or spoke to her agian. The holidays are coming up and these are times that we have very fond memories together. Also,my birthday is Valentines Day. It will be a rough birthday being single and it being Valentines Day and knowing she has someone already... and had. Anyways. Do you think I will hear from her again? Do you think she regrets playing me? And do you think she regrets not taking my ultimatum serious? Talk to me people. Peace.
PegNosePete Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Hello Sugarnaught, I will answer your questions with a question. Why do you give a damn? She has treated you like crap and clearly shown that she has no respect for you or your relationship. If you are done - which any man would be after that - then you need to forget her and move on. Worrying about what she thinks and feels will get you nowhere. It is simply torturing yourself.
LifeNomad Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 stop thinking about those questions because it doesn't matter anymore. just live for yourself, be happy for yourself. one thing she knows for sure is that you stood your ground and meant what you said, and she will know that you were for real, your previous moments shared, your words of love, that was all real also, because you were real. 1
No Limit Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 My first thought when reading the thread title was "What took you so long?" You may hear from her again if her latest boytoy grows bored of screwing her and she needs someone else to be her emotional tampon. Doesn't matter though, because people like her are toxic and unnecessary to have around.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Honestly, I don't think she has many regrets. I think she wasn't as into you as you were into here, unfortunately - even after all that time together. If she really were in love with you and respected your feelings, you would've been the only boyfriend. Period.
Author Supernaught16 Posted November 21, 2014 Author Posted November 21, 2014 I dont really give a damn its more of a spiritual thing thats loking over me. Waking up next to someone every morning, doing most activities with, have same hobbies with and doing those hobbies for two years, everyday.... It's just something I need to let out of me. Also, I never knew people were so cold. Never, met anyone like that or that cold hearted in my life. Something I had to just vent thanks
mightycpa Posted November 21, 2014 Posted November 21, 2014 Do you think I will hear from her again? Do you think she regrets playing me? And do you think she regrets not taking my ultimatum serious? Your days of wondering what she thinks or worrying about how she feels should be over. Your willingness to stay with her while she had a guy on the side for a year was really "doormat generous." If it helps, I'd venture to say she doesn't give a damn about you. At least that's what her actions say.
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