GTR King Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Do all girls like banter? What do you do if your not good at it? How can you improve your banter etc?? Why do some girls never tell you that there not interested after 1st date etc or flake out and not bother telling you? Can't they tell you so that you can move on and now waste your time or is it just the way it is?
carhill Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Some girls are quiet and serious; others are topical and chatty. Everyone is different. IME, improving 'banter', when not otherwise naturally good at it, is done through practice, generally on topics one enjoys with people in general, not with any specific goal in mind. In others words, banter for banter's sake. I find I get my best practice when traveling, striking up conversations with strangers about our circumstances, something they noted, or a funny story I have relevant to our travels. 'Ice breakers' are a handy tool to have. Some people are better at that than others. Myself, I constantly have to practice because I'm not naturally chatty except with friends. As far as dating goes, the way I look at it is I keep showing up, if interested, until either one of us is no longer interested or one of us dies. I don't expect people, including women, to 'owe' me anything simply because we interacted. If they disappear without notice, well we had a good time on the date, hopefully, and that is relegated to a pleasant memory and life goes on. 1
Author GTR King Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 Well thanks mate I am ok at banter but on great but do try my best... Girls usually never tell me that they are no interested but o well thats life and just move on to the next one
preraph Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Read a variety of types of books, see a variety of types of movies and tv, keep up with the news in addition to your usual interests like sports or music. Don't be one-note. When someone tries to make conversation, you have a shot at having something to talk about if you've both seen/read it.
Author GTR King Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 (edited) Yh thanks i do have good conversations when on dates and they usually go well but I never get second dates but only had 2 so not gonna worry as there plenty more dates to come Edited November 20, 2014 by GTR King
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