I am concerned for ex's safety. He really doesn't seem to think life matters anymore.

[Leigh 87]

I'm concerned about my ex.

 

 

After a month of it seeing eeach other since I left him, he just randomly showed up at my flat and accuses me of " sleeping with other men when we were together"

 

 

 

He looked like he hasn't eaten since the break up....

 

As you all know, I am loyal to my men and don't cheat.

 

I don't really appreciate a guy showing up at my door and accusing me of sleeping with other men.

 

He wanted to also talk about our prior relationship but I refused because, well, we aren't in the relationship. ......

 

I had to leave and told him so.

 

He stormed out.

 

He is ADAMANT that I somehow did something " wrong"

 

He also said that I gave him mixed signals ? WTF....

 

A day or so after the break up I told him I did miss him. And he took that to mean that I wanted him back !?!?!??!?!!? Hence why I haven't talked to him at all since...... he has reached out to me once or twice though, to which I politely responded, he wanted answers so I wry blunty explained that I didn't want to be with him, I wanted other men. ....

 

 

 

 

I am concerned for his safety. He really doesn't seem to think life matters anymore. ..... he doesn't eat he Iis turning emaciated. .......

 

He has a mind brain injury and he cannot process break ups as he cannot fathom why a girl would break up with him if he hasn't actually done anything wrong. ..........

 

 

 

 

 

help. Should I send his dad a message explaining that I am concerned for his safety and well being? ???????

 

 

He is not on a healthy state he got it in his head that I was the " one" and he simply cannot let go.

 

I am genuinely worried for his safety.....

Edited November 20, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Leigh 87]

Loveshack changed the heading...

 

I'm concerned about his mental state.

 

I genuinely fear for his safety .

[most_distant_galaxy]

Yes, contact his family, so they can support him and keep an eye on him. I've done this in the past and everything turned out well.

[Leigh 87]

I no longer care about his well being,

 

 

He wrote me a very nasty letter he hand wrote that I only just opened.

 

It states that I am a dirty whore who cheated on him during our relationship (which is bull crap).

 

 

It states that I am a sad and lonely, awful person and so on and so forth...

 

NO wonder why his ex got her sister to break up with him!

 

The delusional freak thinks that any girl who dumps him MUST have problems!

 

He really cannot accept a woman who chooses to just NOT be with him!

 

 

 

 

 

So yeah.... any concern has quickly shifted to " yeah, you are so annoying and delusional I no longer care... you prick"

[mightycpa]

He's just lashing out... you must be quite the prize to elicit such passions in men.