Country_Girl Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 I'll be the first to admit, I can be naive and trusting too soon. Went on a date, only had 2 drinks with this fellow. I'm 32, he's 45. It was a late night date and the bar was closing, so he asked if I wanted to go back to his place for a drink. I didn't sugar coat it, I said I will come back for a drink, but a drink is all it will be. We will not be having sex, it will be to get to know him better per conversation. He agreed and said he just wanted to talk. Get to his place, we are sitting on the couch talking when he goes for a kiss, I move my face to the side. He then leans in kissing my neck and tries pulling my shirt off. I told him to get the **** off me and he backed off apologizing. Return to chatting and after 5 minutes does it again, this time trying to unbutton my pants and creeping me out saying over and over again that "your mine". He left this huge hickey on my neck saying he's claiming his territory. I didn't know what to do, I was so scared being alone with this guy. When he tried to unbutton my pants again, I pushed him off and said I was leaving. He tried to appologize but I said it was too late. This was two nights ago,I never even gave him my phone #, but somehow he obtained it. Now he calls me at least 4 times a day and texts about 4-5 times a day. I have not responded to any of it. I don't want to put a restraining order on this guys record, should I answer the next call and just warn him first? I don't want to talk to him, his behavior scares me.
Maleficent Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Hum. Why wouldn't you want a restraining order on this guy's record? What has he done that would make you go 'hey he's a good guy. I don't want him to be held accountable for his actions or anything...'?
Tayken Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 @OP......unless you are listed in the phone book / you plastered your info on linkedin / facebook and he knows your full name, I fail to see how he could have got your number, without asking acquaintances of yours / people you both know Your first mistake was going back to his place....what did you think was seriously going to happen on the couch? he must have been cute cos am sure if he wasn't all that, you probably won't have gone to his house
CarrieT Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Just give him one warning to leave you alone. Just one. Read this page.
FitChick Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 When you go to a man's apartment, it means you are willing to have sex. Doesn't matter what you say. Actions speak louder than words. Women, learn from her experience. 1
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