BuckeyeJess Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Newbie here! Just registered my account today. Hope some of you can help me with my problem. My boyfriend and I have been together since July. Things were (obviously) blissful in the beginning. Things started getting rocky. We would argue over small things, and we said we would continue to try because we both loved each other. Just this past weekend, we went out of town, just us, and had a wonderful time. It was amazing. I made a mistake the following Monday and got upset with him because I felt like he was ignoring my texts. I said things out of anger and frustration (I know, bad idea). The next morning, I heard from him saying he was done. Done with the arguing, done with the relationship. This was all over Facebook messenger, mind you. I was appalled. I know I made a mistake by acting that way, but to break up with me over facebook? Really? Basically my question is this. Is he really done, or does he just need time? I have been trying to give him his space. I still have things of his, and vice versa. We are also still friends on Facebook, and still "in a relationship." Am I holding onto nothing? I guess I'm wishful thinking he will come back because we had such a good weekend, and that Monday he was saying such sweet things to me. Any insight would be awesome.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Well, what exactly did you say to him?
carly75 Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Let him to think and let all him forget all the things that you've done to him. I think he needs some space.
almond Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 You say things were blissful at the start...it's still the start! In reality, you've only been together for a few weeks. You're frequently arguing, getting upset over ignored texts, and lashing out and being hurtful. He has now dummped you. This isn't going anywhere. Delete him off Facebook - don't waste anymore time in this one.
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