greenday41 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Alright. So, this is going to be a bit long: So, a week earlier, my friend liked a girl's picture, and it appeared on my Facebook home page. I, then told my friend that I find her cute. Just as I said this, he went and told her on Whatsapp, "My friend finds you cute. He's a guitarist, etc..and a very good guy. He was in our college earlier. Should I ask him to add you on FB?". She was like, "Haha okay, but don't give him my number". He then contacted me and asked me to add her, which I did, after some hesitation. I wasn't interested in her, but I still thought to give it a shot. She accepted my request, and we started chatting soon. During every chat, I was very playful with her, and she did the same. I, also cracked a lot of jokes, and made her laugh a lot, after which she said she found me funny and an 'awesome' person to talk to. This went on for several days, until I revealed to her a certain secret, and I was obviously awestruck as she told me she was excited as hell to know the secret. This happened yesterday, and I made her laugh further, and flirted a little with her. We even assigned special nicknames to each other, and she called me, "super sweet", "awesome", and "funny". Just before sleeping off, she asked me for my number indirectly, which I gladly gave. So, today I chatted with her on Whatsapp, with the usual flow. But, a certain topic came up, about her father, and I think she didn't like it, thus she didn't reply to it. Thereby, to change the topic and to start a convo again, I messaged her after a few hours, sending a flirty text. She saw the message, but didn't reply at all. Usually, she replies soon as she sees the message, or sometimes, replies after some hours. But, today, as she didn't reply, my heart just sank, as I found out that she replied immediately to my friend. The thing is, we send drawings of anime characters to each other everyday, just complimenting each other on how well we draw them. She seemed very interested in me, and things went very smooth, and slow, at a steady pace, until now. We haven't met in real life yet, due to vacations, and I'm already crazy for her. It's not her looks, or something like that. There's something magnetic in her, that attracted me to her. These 7 days, I didn't feel like eating anything, and while chatting with her, my heart always skipped a beat. I became very moody and depressed when she wasn't around, even though I engaged myself with sports and friends. She's on my mind all the time, and I've even imagined a future with all, etc. Although, she is single from 5 years, there are several things that are there: Around 2 months ago, she posted a status that it was the best feeling in the world when her crush stalked her. And, today, she changed her Whatsapp DP to a certain drawing of a character, and her status was updated to: "#2months <3" Her not replying to my flirty text, and these certain pointers make me feel that she likes someone else. I would like your people's opinion, since my heart just sank after reading her status today, and even further, when she didn't reply to my message, but instead replied to my friend. It's like something has withered in me, similar to a past breakup I've had. I don't know why I feel like this for her, even though it's only a week. I've never felt this craving or madness to any of my exes too. I can't sleep, and I feel my head spinning. I also, can't focus on anything, it's irritating. :/
Author greenday41 Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 Welp, since the forum doesn't allow me to edit, I have to bump this. So, I found out that she has a boyfriend. -.- Although, she replied to my message and apologized for not replying earlier. She is still playful with me, but I'm trying to get over her. I would like tips on how to move on easily, since it is ****ing up my sleep and my eating habits.
GoBlue Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Everything you described is normal, but there certainly isn't enough information for anyone to determine if your "crush" likes someone else or not. I have no idea what "#2months <3" means at all! So, I can't comment on how this has impacted you so strongly. It's normal to get excited about a new relationship and it's normal to get depressed when it appears that it may be over. You could always ask her to meet in REAL LIFE - you know - face-to-face. The worse she could do is say "no." My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Author greenday41 Posted November 21, 2014 Author Posted November 21, 2014 Everything you described is normal, but there certainly isn't enough information for anyone to determine if your "crush" likes someone else or not. I have no idea what "#2months <3" means at all! So, I can't comment on how this has impacted you so strongly. It's normal to get excited about a new relationship and it's normal to get depressed when it appears that it may be over. You could always ask her to meet in REAL LIFE - you know - face-to-face. The worse she could do is say "no." My thoughts and prayers are with you. Well, I found out that #2months <3 meant her 2 month relationship with her boyfriend. I found this out from her friend who indirectly asked her about it. And, she asked me to hang out with her a month later, when we both get free time. Yesterday, my relative passed away as well as I heard this news, so these both together impacted me in the worst way possible. Why do I feel so strongly for my 1 week crush whom I haven't met in real life, but didn't feel as much as this with my exes?
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