katielee Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 we have had some really good times with connection and me feeling cherished. That is absolutely what I need. The past two days he's been busy at work and hasn't been able to contact me. I cannot believe that I need to this stay calm 2.5 years later. I'm a strong person. Trauma must run very deep. Can this please be over with? I told him that I hated being this way. He understood. Not much more I can ask for.... I think it's just that dreaded time thing.
jm2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 we have had some really good times with connection and me feeling cherished. That is absolutely what I need. The past two days he's been busy at work and hasn't been able to contact me. I cannot believe that I need to this stay calm 2.5 years later. I'm a strong person. Trauma must run very deep. Can this please be over with? I told him that I hated being this way. He understood. Not much more I can ask for.... I think it's just that dreaded time thing. Perhaps it is that feeling that these people have displayed who they can be already to us. I don't think there's an expiration or time limit where you could invest 100% back in. I am sure these feelings would come rushing back in an instant if something felt off or there were instances where you had to invest that type of trust again and take their words at face value. Sorry you've revisited these emotions and hope you're able to work through them.
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