rov Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Hi, I have a question, when a girl you met and went on a first date with her never initiates contact with you and you always have to initiate contact with her does it mean she is not interested?
SunnySide0418 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Depends on how receptive she is to you when you do contact her. Maybe she just likes to be pursued. 1
Author rov Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) Depends on how receptive she is to you when you do contact her. Maybe she just likes to be pursued. Well I went on a date with a girl I knew from the university 8 years ago, she is very cute and her personality is great also. She seems like a good girl to me. But I don't know why she is stringing me along because when I invite her to a date she says: yes but when I try to set de day and hour of the date she tells me: yeah will see that as the week goes along or sometime she doesn't respond, because of this I told her that I will never insist in inviting her to a date because she takes to much time to respond me or she doesn't answer ande she tells me that she is so sorry she couldn't answer because she was very busy or here phone had no signal etc and tells me that she had a great time with me on the first date and that she likes me. So I don't know what the **** with her attitude :S This week I invited her and she told me she will contact me to set the details of the date, I don't know if this is true or she is just flaking me. I decided not to contact her again until she initiates contact. Edited November 19, 2014 by rov
SunnySide0418 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 In this case I would not contact her again. It's her move to make.
Assasda Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 answer to your initial question. Yes, It means theyre not interested
Thegreatestthing Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Not at all,women have always been discouraged from iniating relationships Hi, I have a question, when a girl you met and went on a first date with her never initiates contact with you and you always have to initiate contact with her does it mean she is not interested?
d0nnivain Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 It depends on the woman, her cultural background, her age & some other intangibles. If she is otherwise enthusiastic, don't get hung up & start counting how many times who called whom. 1
Author rov Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 Not at all,women have always been discouraged from iniating relationships How do you distinguish between a girl that is interested in you but never initiates contact and a girl that is not interested in you?
Elle1975 Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 A girl is interested when she obviously sounds happy to be hearing from you, and accept your date. She is not interested when she says "yeah maybe.. lets see how my week goes (lets see if I have anything better to do). Not all women initiate. A lot of women like a proactive man. 1
Tayken Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 It means she is playing head games, and think she is better than you / it's your job to contact her. Onus is on you to treat her otherwise
Author rov Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 When I told her that if we would see each other this week she told me that she would contact me in the next days to set the details of the date, that was on Monday, today is Wednesday´s night and I haven´t heard anything from her. Does it sound like she is just falling and making excuses?. Should I stop all contact just wait till she contacts me or just wait one or two weeks and contact her again?
greenman77 Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 When I told her that if we would see each other this week she told me that she would contact me in the next days to set the details of the date, that was on Monday, today is Wednesday´s night and I haven´t heard anything from her. Does it sound like she is just falling and making excuses?. Should I stop all contact just wait till she contacts me or just wait one or two weeks and contact her again? Sorry bud but it looks to me like she's not interested. But what the hell do I know.. I'm terrible at this stuff lol.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 I never initiate contact in the dating stage, but respond happily to his contact and invitations and work with him to make specific date plans in a timely way. If she's telling you you'll figure out the specifics later and then not getting back in touch with you, she's not interested. I would move on.
Author rov Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 (edited) I never initiate contact in the dating stage, but respond happily to his contact and invitations and work with him to make specific date plans in a timely way. If she's telling you you'll figure out the specifics later and then not getting back in touch with you, she's not interested. I would move on. So do you think I have no chances here?, I will wait a week to see test if she contacts me as she said. I forgot to mention that she ended an 11 year relationship 6 months ago because her boyfriend was unfaithful to her. Edited November 20, 2014 by rov
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