kitkatleen Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Just wondering if there is anyone out there who hates sexting. It seems really common especially with guys doing it. One of the guys i used to date doesn't sext at all. Is he shy, respectful or just not sexually attracted to me? Another guy i dated was sexting 24/7 and it turns me off so badly that i stopped talking to him altogether. I personally do not like it but sometimes it's nice to know that you're desirable by your partner. My friends complains that their partners do it all the time and it annoys them. Any comments?
PegNosePete Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) I don't "hate" it but I find it uninteresting and pointless. I'd rather talk about something intellectually stimulating. If you need sexts to know that you're desirable then there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. Your friends should not complain to you about it, they should tell their boyfriends of their feelings. Edited November 19, 2014 by PegNosePete
MercuryMorrison1 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 (edited) Sexting is just the new ''cyber sex'' this kind of thing isn't new at all, hell for almost the past 20 years people have been doing this kinda crap in chat rooms, Its just spilled over into cell phones now because of their availability to essentially anyone. My personal thoughts on it...It's kinda lame. I mean its one thing to send a sexy text to you significant other saying something like, your so sexy I can't wait to get you in bed tonight, or whatever. But to actually enact an entire sexual encounter through texting just comes off as desperate to me. Just my thoughts on it. Edited November 19, 2014 by MercuryMorrison1
Chemist Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Once in a blue moon, especially if you have a date planned, haven't had a night together in a while to send a nice dirty text can make set a nice sexy tone to an evening. I mean once in a blue moon as in, I did this maybe once every 2-3 months.
ComingInHot Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Maybe you're not doing it right? ... It can be a fun primer to the real thing sometimes, I think* But probably not aaaallll the time 2
Tayken Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 If you need sexts to know that you're desirable then there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. Bingo....you hit the nail on the head. Of course those that do it are going to think it's OK I have news for you folks, it doesn't stay with that person, other people get to see it, and the things that get said aren't nice most of the time. Learn from what you hear in the news about teenagers doing it at school and via social media.
Priv Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Maybe you're not doing it right? ... It can be a fun primer to the real thing sometimes, I think* But probably not aaaallll the time Agreed. I always liked it a lot 2
Dragnets Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 Once a while is OK as long it is not too much. Sexting should be used for fun. I am sure it attract more when you try to seduce by talking not texting.
Otter2569 Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 If its sexting 24/7 then it can be a little much. I do think its hot and is a great way of building interest and intrigue. Personally, I will send flirty texts but never initiate sexting unless the woman goes there first. Then of course we are off to the races. Even then I am always mindful what I say and try no to offend anyone.
preraph Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 There's no way I'd ever do it with someone I hadn't already been sleeping with for some time and felt that familiar with them. I'm not about to text to some strange guy I've never been with just so they can get off at home alone. It's nuts to put that stuff on the internet anyway. It's there forever! If I want to talk dirty to a man, I'd do it by phone where it's not recorded before I'd put it in writing! I just think it's to be reserved for someone you really love that you can't be with, like your military husband, for example. Don't ever do anything online just because there are a bunch of other people doing it. It doesn't make it the smart thing to do.
nofeelings22 Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 Hell no! It's just plain stupid. An innuendo or hint, yes, but sexting? So lame. I text all my potentials? I use text for a nice interactive conversation, arrange to meet and let things go from there in real life. Where things actually feel good.
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