sillyanswer Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I want them upset You want to date women you're not interested in and to then reject them because you want to upset them? That's a poor attitude, Darren2013. Are you serious?
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 You want to date women you're not interested in and to then reject them because you want to upset them? That's a poor attitude, Darren2013. Are you serious? I fear he is. Luckily, I'm not worried about him hurting ay women. I mean... this is the same guy that planned on attracting his crush by having clothes pegs all over his face an neck and baking a cake for the whole team! So I'm quite confident no woman will even go near him, much less show any overt interest, and that way his plan will die before it even hatched. 3
CaliGypsy Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I really hope you're yanking our collective chain Darren. No excuse for that kind of behavior 1
littleblackheart Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Having glanced at most of the OP's recent threads, I'm starting to wonder whether he is in fact trying to collate as many anecdotes / random people's reactions on his unique thoughts about how (not) to start / maintain a successful relationship for research purposes (a thesis? a book?). This is the only best-case scenario I can come up with...
most_distant_galaxy Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Darren, my boy. You need to relax! And then grow up. And then stop the nonsense and be a man. Don't you have better use for your time? 1
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I think my goal for the rest of my short life Darren, my boy. You need to relax! And then grow up. And then stop the nonsense and be a man. Don't you have better use for your time? I know!!!Especially if his time is as short as he seems to imply... Though on some thread he implies he is going to die quite shortly, but on others he seems to be making long term plans... But if I had a short life span, I would be doing my best to enjoy every second of it! Not waste my time in childish games...
most_distant_galaxy Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Darren, have you ever thought about finding a submissive and being in a sadomasochistic relationship? Maybe this is your way to be happy in a relationship, and keep someone else happy too.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 I know!!!Especially if his time is as short as he seems to imply... Though on some thread he implies he is going to die quite shortly, but on others he seems to be making long term plans... But if I had a short life span, I would be doing my best to enjoy every second of it! Not waste my time in childish games... Everybody has a short life span. It is just a matter of degree. So even if I lived to 120 years it is still short and will come and go quick.
Brooke02 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I can see the women lining up now. Oh the dissapointment they'll be in for.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 I fear he is. Luckily, I'm not worried about him hurting ay women. I mean... this is the same guy that planned on attracting his crush by having clothes pegs all over his face an neck and baking a cake for the whole team! So I'm quite confident no woman will even go near him, much less show any overt interest, and that way his plan will die before it even hatched. There's nothing wrong with baking a cake for the whole team.
Haydn Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Save me a seat. Darren, why would anyone go out with something just to have the pleasure of rejecting them on purpose? Doc Love seems to have a lot to answer for. Why not try going out with them and perhaps, just perhaps you might not want to reject them? absolutely, I'll bring enough for us both
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 I know!!!Especially if his time is as short as he seems to imply... Though on some thread he implies he is going to die quite shortly, but on others he seems to be making long term plans... But if I had a short life span, I would be doing my best to enjoy every second of it! Not waste my time in childish games... Well not everyone is like you. Just because I respond to life in a different way doesn't make it wrong.
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Everybody has a short life span. It is just a matter of degree. So even if I lived to 120 years it is still short and will come and go quick. Oh... does that mean you're NOT dying of cancer, then? Because sometimes you imply that you are. Others you don't. And I honestly don't know what to think and can't quite gauge whether you're pulling our collective legs or not. And no. We don't have a short life span. Sure, it is shorter than other species, but since we are NOT those other species, our life span is what it is. Not short. When someone says that they're gonna do something in the rest of their "short life", especially when they're not a 75 year old, it is taken to mean that there is something wrong and that their life will be cut short soon, for whatever reason.
Haydn Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Sorry i meant `Someone` not `Something` Save me a seat Darren, why would anyone go out with something just to have the pleasure of rejecting them on purpose? Doc Love seems to have a lot to answer for. Why not try going out with them and perhaps, just perhaps you might not want to reject them?
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Well not everyone is like you. Just because I respond to life in a different way doesn't make it wrong. When that different way is planning to intentionally HURT people? Yes, it is wrong. And yes, there are RIGHTS and WRONGS in life! And you, my dear, are wrong! If you'd just said you didn't want to go out with anyone and live a life of solitude (in a dating perspective), sure! I'd be all for it. But when you say you will go out with women, just so that you can reject them and see the hurt in their eyes and get a kick out of it? You're wrong. 1
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 There's nothing wrong with baking a cake for the whole team. Of course there isn't! It's actually quite a nice gesture! It's just not the big romantic gesture for your crush that you seemed to be hoping it would be.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 When that different way is planning to intentionally HURT people? Yes, it is wrong. And yes, there are RIGHTS and WRONGS in life! And you, my dear, are wrong! If you'd just said you didn't want to go out with anyone and live a life of solitude (in a dating perspective), sure! I'd be all for it. But when you say you will go out with women, just so that you can reject them and see the hurt in their eyes and get a kick out of it? You're wrong. I wouldn't see the hurt in their eyes because I would go into NC mode before that happens.
Emilia Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Have you ever had a relationship Darren? Something mutual that passed the crush state?
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Oh... does that mean you're NOT dying of cancer, then? Because sometimes you imply that you are. Others you don't. And I honestly don't know what to think and can't quite gauge whether you're pulling our collective legs or not. And no. We don't have a short life span. Sure, it is shorter than other species, but since we are NOT those other species, our life span is what it is. Not short. When someone says that they're gonna do something in the rest of their "short life", especially when they're not a 75 year old, it is taken to mean that there is something wrong and that their life will be cut short soon, for whatever reason. Short is all in the matter of interpretation. To me even the 120 year plan is short. I happen to believe in the Bible account when humans used to live 800-900 years. So compared to Old Testament times out lifespan is very short today. And as to whether I am dying of cancer of not. I don't want to talk about it and I leave it to you to draw your own conclusions. I really don't care how long you think I am going to live or not live. It is irrelevant what you think because you don't have a stake in it one way or the other.
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Have you ever had a relationship Darren? Something mutual that passed the crush state? He says he's had 4... One of them lasting 4 years, I think. Maybe something happened after those relationships... O_o
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Have you ever had a relationship Darren? Something mutual that passed the crush state? I have already answered that question in other threads. It isn't my problem if you have chosen not to read it.
Emilia Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I have already answered that question in other threads. It isn't my problem if you have chosen not to read it. Nope, just checked in your other thread and you haven't responded. I take it as a no.
ASG Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I wouldn't see the hurt in their eyes because I would go into NC mode before that happens. Potatoes, Potahtoes. The end game is the same. You want to hurt them. And that is wrong. Not just different (though it certainly is that!) but WRONG!
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Of course there isn't! It's actually quite a nice gesture! It's just not the big romantic gesture for your crush that you seemed to be hoping it would be. But it isn't a turn off either.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Nope, just checked in your other thread and you haven't responded. I take it as a no. There's thousands of other threads I have posted but maybe you don't have time to go through them all.
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