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Worst Date Night Ever Makes me Wanna Quit Online Dating


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Well, she sounds awful.

 

Can I just ask, though, what about her seemed so awesome over text? I assume you never spoke on the phone before meeting, since people don't really these days. But what did you learn about her in texts that earned "awesome"? Since she turned out to be the polar opposite of that (and of everything a person would like in another person, really) I'm genuinely curious about how she hid her true self so well.

 

Simple, she messaged me first(a woman messaging me first is a rarity) she was wanting to chat with me for a bit.

 

I just realized that I went on a date with her simply because she asked. She SEEMED like she was interested and wanted someone more than just a hook up.

 

Yeah, I deserved a bad time.

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Yeah...a few things I'm telling myself.

 

1. Don't go on dates with super obese women...ever again. A few lbs is okay, but 350 lbs is not exactly my thing. I was trying to look past it though. Get some standards. If a woman's gonna have standards, you should too. Don't be desperate because you're in a bad place in life right now.

2. Don't say yes to every date that pops up. Not always a good idea.

3. Don't date country women. ESPECIALLY trailer park trash. They seem to be the ones you don't get along with. Stick to who you're good with.

4. There's nothing wrong with one-night stands. Don't always try to be the good guy. If a chick doesn't earn respect, don't give it to her.

5. If you feel like you were used for sex, you probably were. And that's not necessarily a bad thing, but get yourself tested. This one looks loose.

6. I had a sense the date was going to go bad the MINUTE I heard her talking about standards. Should have ran.

7. If it seems too easy, that's probably a bad sign.

8.Listen to your guts

9. Listen to your guts.

10. LISTEN TO YOUR GUTS!

 

And that, teach, is what I've learned from this experience.

 

Oh my goodness, that is 210lbs more than the average woman :eek: Them country / small down girls sure know how to get down i.e. sexting pics of her 350 frame doing it to another guy who is probably her cousin :rolleyes:

 

It's probably how she gets her self esteem boost that she is getting some, and that guys want her including you.

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She clearly lost all interest in you after sex and was hoping you would leave....so I'm curious why you stayed?

 

For the sake of me not being embarrassed by my current situation, I will decline anything involving the fact that at the present moment, I didn't have a ride.

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Oh my goodness, that is 210lbs more than the average woman :eek: Them country / small down girls sure know how to get down i.e. sexting pics of her 350 frame doing it to another guy who is probably her cousin :rolleyes:

 

It's probably how she gets her self esteem boost that she is getting some, and that guys want her including you.

 

Sad truth is, in my area(the Butler/Meridian area) that majority of women, with few exceptions...are obese, simple country folks who may or may not be racist.

 

So it's slim-pickings here, and I mean that in the most ironic of ways.

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Simple, she messaged me first(a woman messaging me first is a rarity) she was wanting to chat with me for a bit.

 

I just realized that I went on a date with her simply because she asked. She SEEMED like she was interested and wanted someone more than just a hook up.

 

Yeah, I deserved a bad time.

 

Oh, I don't think you deserved it, but yeah, you might consider raising your standards. It's nice that she messaged you and wanted to chat but "awesome" seems like high praise for that.

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