Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Many folks emphasize that once a guy enters the friend-zone there is no way out. He is stuck there forever. What about a no contact policy? Will that help in any situation get a guy out of the friend-zone? I mean at the very least NC will put an end to the friendship even if she never becomes interested in a sexual or romantic relationship.
OwMyEyeball Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Nothing turns a woman on more than passive-aggressive behaviour! Maybe any time he's driving by her place he can slow down a bit and really crank up the Taylor Swift album he's got rocking in his Honda Fit. There's nothing a woman loves more in a man than another woman. 3
eye of the storm Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Yes, NC will get you out of the friend zone Because you will not longer be friends. But it will not put you into any other zone that you want to be in either. 2
jrtfrisco Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I don't know, but one way to avoid the friend-zone in the first place is to make a move relatively fast (which includes flirting, asking her out, kissing her, etc.). Better to make the move and be rejected (and know you gave it a shot), than be too passive and now be her buddy. If you're in the friend-zone though, then just move on. Don't waste time on a girl who is not interested in you the way you are interested in her.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Then is there any way to get out of the friend-zone?
OwMyEyeball Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 You could try really revvin' up your engine until she's pretty much begging you to touch and go. Use that charm to take her right into the twilight then shove it into overdrive. She might never say "hello" to you, until you get it onto the red line overload. You might not ever really know what you can do! You've really got to bring things out onto the edge and fire up the intensity. Then, and only then, can you take things out of the friend zone and bring them right into the danger zone. Seriously, you just have to ride into the danger zone. Bring appropriate PPE, especially protective eyewear. Aviator sunglasses work pretty good.
newmoon Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Many folks emphasize that once a guy enters the friend-zone there is no way out. He is stuck there forever. What about a no contact policy? Will that help in any situation get a guy out of the friend-zone? I mean at the very least NC will put an end to the friendship even if she never becomes interested in a sexual or romantic relationship. the only thing that has ever got a guy out of my friendzone and back on my radar was when he found a gf/date prettier than me. i was like WTF? i must have missed something, and all of a sudden, wanted him as more than a friend. sometimes the thing we need to see is that 'friend' being admired by someone we deem better than ourselves. i was jealous that another girl was getting his attention and etc. but NC - that wouldn't work imo 1
Author Darren2013 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 the only thing that has ever got a guy out of my friendzone and back on my radar was when he found a gf/date prettier than me. i was like WTF? i must have missed something, and all of a sudden, wanted him as more than a friend. sometimes the thing we need to see is that 'friend' being admired by someone we deem better than ourselves. i was jealous that another girl was getting his attention and etc. but NC - that wouldn't work imo Well that sucks. The only thing getting him out of the friend-zone is something that would not give him a reason to want to look back to the woman who friend-zoned him. So by then it is pretty much a moot point.
somedude81 Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 the only thing that has ever got a guy out of my friendzone and back on my radar was when he found a gf/date prettier than me. i was like WTF? i must have missed something, and all of a sudden, wanted him as more than a friend. sometimes the thing we need to see is that 'friend' being admired by someone we deem better than ourselves. i was jealous that another girl was getting his attention and etc. but NC - that wouldn't work imo Ha ha! So maybe I should hire an escort to be my date for an evening at an event that I know a female friends that I'm interested in will be at. 2
Shining One Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 So maybe I should hire an escort to be my date for an evening at an event that I know a female friends that I'm interested in will be at.There are apparently professional wing women services out there. I did not know about this until now, but I can't say I'm surprised. Seriously though, just ask a hot female friend to help you out.
newmoon Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Well that sucks. The only thing getting him out of the friend-zone is something that would not give him a reason to want to look back to the woman who friend-zoned him. So by then it is pretty much a moot point. well, he came back :-) the good part is that he actually did like me and when i expressed some interest he stopped dating the other girl. perhaps it was a ploy to get my attention? i'm not sure, but it worked and got him unfriendzoned, lol. a bit of jealousy might go a long way if someone finds themselves friendzoned
Konochicha Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 well, he came back :-) the good part is that he actually did like me and when i expressed some interest he stopped dating the other girl. perhaps it was a ploy to get my attention? i'm not sure, but it worked and got him unfriendzoned, lol. a bit of jealousy might go a long way if someone finds themselves friendzoned Takes notes, Darren. If this is what you have to do just to get a girl to like you, then it's too much work. You want a real way to get out of the friend-zone? Stop being a friend to a girl you're interested in. Be FRIENDLY, but express interest...and exert your sexuality in a subtle, but confident way. If that doesn't work, keep your options and talk to other girls. Nothing gets these game-playing girls off more than watching the guy they rejected get prettier gf's. Darren, for the most part, don't take dating in your 20s too seriously. That's a great way to get out of the friendzone. 1
Konochicha Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Well that sucks. The only thing getting him out of the friend-zone is something that would not give him a reason to want to look back to the woman who friend-zoned him. So by then it is pretty much a moot point. Your question is answered. Best way to get out? Move on. 1
eye of the storm Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 Why do you want out of the friend zone? Your other posts make it clear you do not want a relationship with them. You just want them to want you so you can hurt them. 1
Author Darren2013 Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 Okay so NC won't work. Are there any other ways to get promoted out of the friend-zone assuming that I got friend-zoned because I waited too long to make a move? Why is waiting too long considered such an unpardonable sin in a woman's eyes? A guy can have a change of heart and muster up enough courage but it takes some of us longer than others. If a certain lady had an interest in me initially before I got friend-zoned I need to know how to get it back.
sillyanswer Posted November 20, 2014 Posted November 20, 2014 Okay so NC won't work. Are there any other ways to get promoted out of the friend-zone assuming that I got friend-zoned because I waited too long to make a move? Why is waiting too long considered such an unpardonable sin in a woman's eyes? Well, have you made a move yet? Sometimes you're in the friend zone because you put yourself there by not acting like someone with romantic/sexual interest.
Author Darren2013 Posted November 20, 2014 Author Posted November 20, 2014 Well, have you made a move yet? Sometimes you're in the friend zone because you put yourself there by not acting like someone with romantic/sexual interest. No I haven't made any moves yet but from what I understand once I am put in the friend-zone then any moves I do make at that point will seem creepy to her and attack her comfort level and in some cases she may view it as sexual harassment. If it is too late for me because I did not make a move soon enough then I guess I am doing the right thing to continue to not make a move. It seems like any attempt to correct what got me in the friend-zone would make it worse. And people say I just have to chalk it up to experience and start over with a new woman and with the new woman learn to make a move sooner. I don't want to hear that because I am not interested in just starting over with any new chick especially when it may be a long time from now before I find a new chick that I am interested to the degree as I was the last one.
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