jbear0111 Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 Well,i suppose i knew it was coming sooner or later but doesnt lessen the hurt. Told today that ex is with another man! 8 weeks post break up from the woman i absolutely loved and invested my heart in but who walked away from me after 2.5 years. she said i was terrified of commitment because i wouldnt pander to her constant pressure and demands for marriage, move to her town and baby(within 1st year ) i now believe (from my previous threads) that she has some bpd traits and had told me when i first met her that her 2 previous long term relationships ended when they cheated on her.she stayed with both to try again and apparently both proposed to her but she said no and walked away from both so theres obvs some trust issues. i also believe now she was seeing me whilst at the back end of her previous relationship When she walked away from me she said she was devestated,cried every night for a week and always wanted a life with me and im the one who couldnt commit (she the victim again) i did keep mailing and texting up to a week ago saying if we try we can make it work but no response so today is day 6 of no contact crushed by what i heard today but have to think its the final nail in the coffin and i have to move on.cant believe she has so quickly!!
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