frozengirl Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 I was just thinking, have any of you ever dealt when dating that you find one person you like then you find another person and then another and then you have 3 guys or 3 girls and you're talking to all 3 seeing which one you like the most? To me it made me think what if one of those guys or girls notices you're still logging onto your dating profiles even though you're still talking to them? Isn't that wrong to do? What if they do it? Does doing this show the other person that you aren't interested or what? To me, when I do find someone I am into I usually focus on just that 1 person or talk to a few people seeing who I really connect with the most, but then part of me feels bad for talking to multiple people at once, because you should just stay focused on one? I don't know maybe someone will get what I am trying to say.
CarrieT Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 When I was doing OLD, I would talk to 30 or 40 people until one or two "gelled" into something worthwhile. Potential connections have to be fleshed out.
venusishername Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 Yes, I'm dealing with this right now for the first time in my life! I've been seeing someone just recently that I reconnected with through a dating site (but had met in person first in the past), and we have been seeing a lot of each other and are definitely interested. I feel guilty for continuing to log on and look. However, I feel it's too soon to just focus on this. I've been exchanging lengthy messages with another guy who I'd really like to meet, and probably will very soon... I don't know the etiquette on this, so curious to hear.
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