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If you're a manly man and don't go shaving off all of god's gift to your manly body, she'll have plenty of confidence all over your body to run her hands through.

That's another turn off -- men as hairy as chimpanzees.

 

OP, where do you live? I won't move there.

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Finasteride CAN cause sexual dysfunction, but this can be reversed ala proviron.

preraph Established Member

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That's another turn off -- men as hairy as chimpanzees.

 

OP, where do you live? I won't move there.

 

Thank you! You always hear on this board talking about how women can change their boobs to be more attractive, etc., but hardly ever hear any men talking about grooming themselves. Harry torso -- Gaaaaack! Good thing there are some women who like it, but I have to say I don't personally know any.

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Do you want a man who looks nice or can **** you like you need?

 

The second one. No question about it.

 

But the man who can do that looks like a KING to me. Love hormones are blinding!

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Thank you! You always hear on this board talking about how women can change their boobs to be more attractive, etc., but hardly ever hear any men talking about grooming themselves. Harry torso -- Gaaaaack! Good thing there are some women who like it, but I have to say I don't personally know any.

 

I love a bit of chest/stomach hair. But I wouldn't tell a man what to do about his hair or baldness and wouldn't put up with a man telling me what to do either.

 

If men are really concerned and want to try hair regrowth products etc. good for them. If not, what is the problem? If you aren't attracted, that's totally fine. But you don't need to be so rude and insulting to all short, fat or bald men out there.

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I love me a hairy chest!

 

Going after narcissistic traits is a losing strategy. Get to know the people and love can grow. You'll love him bald, and short and maybe even fat.

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I love me a hairy chest!

 

Going after narcissistic traits is a losing strategy. Get to know the people and love can grow. You'll love him bald, and short and maybe even fat.

 

:) As a chubby who isn't short or bald, I do pretty ****ing good. :D

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I wouldn't run a hairy guy off (body hair) but they'd have to shave. I know guys who did shave. It will grow back if they meet someone who likes it. I don't care about legs or the naughty bits hair. Just back and stomach, shoulders and I'd rather there wasn't any on the upper arms and very little on the chest. This has never really been a problem for me either. Most guys I knew didn't mind grooming or had very little to begin with. I like skin too much to want it all covered in wiry hair, I'm sorry. I feel the same about too many tattoos. Good unobstructed skin is sexy.

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I wouldn't run a hairy guy off (body hair) but they'd have to shave. I know guys who did shave. It will grow back if they meet someone who likes it. I don't care about legs or the naughty bits hair. Just back and stomach, shoulders and I'd rather there wasn't any on the upper arms and very little on the chest. This has never really been a problem for me either. Most guys I knew didn't mind grooming or had very little to begin with. I like skin too much to want it all covered in wiry hair, I'm sorry. I feel the same about too many tattoos. Good unobstructed skin is sexy.

 

But I know plenty of girls who want the opposite... Many want men with sexy facial hair or chest hair.. as a quote "I want to know I am dating a man, not a boy"... Not that I am saying it takes hair to make a man, that is absurd, but just to illustrate that body hair is a preference. But bald short and fat seem to be common among all :)

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Just saying I know plenty who hate beards and don't know any who would only date beards. I think it's limiting, that's all.

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Just saying I know plenty who hate beards and don't know any who would only date beards. I think it's limiting, that's all.

 

It can hurt when kissing

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Balding is a genetic disposition which the person has no choice over.

 

Being fat isn't.

 

Neither is being short a choice.

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Thank you! You always hear on this board talking about how women can change their boobs to be more attractive, etc., but hardly ever hear any men talking about grooming themselves. Harry torso -- Gaaaaack! Good thing there are some women who like it, but I have to say I don't personally know any.

 

WHAT!?! I mean... I don't necessarily like the chimpanzee look, but some chest hair? It's almost a must!!! (though not a deal breaker!)

 

Not long ago the guy I'm seeing had his chest hair shaven off for a medical exam. I saw him a couple of weeks after it and the hair still wasn't fully grown. I was a bit taken aback, to be honest. He even apologised (I thought that was sooo cute). He likes that I play with his chest hair and I LOVE playing with it! Hmmmmm

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Thank you! You always hear on this board talking about how women can change their boobs to be more attractive, etc., but hardly ever hear any men talking about grooming themselves. Harry torso -- Gaaaaack! Good thing there are some women who like it, but I have to say I don't personally know any.

 

Now see, there's the difference thing again. My GF likes a hairy chest, loves it actually. She tells me that it's what makes a man different than a woman. I tend to keep myself neatly groomed on my chest, she wants me to stop and just let it grow. Then again, she likes my gray hair.

 

<shrug> Everyone has their preferences. That's where the saying - someone for everyone- comes into play.

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I am currently seeing a man who is a bit overweight (has a beer belly and all), bald, and just slightly taller than me. He is a sweet guy, whom I prefer a thousand times over my jerk ex who was tall, not bald, fit, and very good-looking. I mean, don't get me wrong, I think my current guy is good-looking; otherwise I would not have dated him. But I don't have a laundry list of criteria that I need to check ALL off before I decide to give someone a chance.

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Recognizing a good, sexy man is half the challenge. Height and hair doesn't make a man great in bed!

HERE, HERE!!!! My current guy is AWESOME in bed. My ex put me to sleep DURING sex, despite being drop-dead gorgeous in the looks department. Plus, he was a jerk.

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But I know plenty of girls who want the opposite... Many want men with sexy facial hair or chest hair..

HELLS YEA!!! My guy has A LOT of chest hair. I find it incredibly sexy. It drives me crazy! My ex did not have a very hairy chest, and now I am discovering that I like it a lot. In fact, my current guy has hair even on his back.. which a lot of women consider to be a turnoff. Personally, I never understood what the problem with that is. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. It's not like he turns his back to me during sex. LOL.

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It can hurt when kissing

Not to mention... oral. Yeah. I get my guy to shave before he does that. Kissing not so much of a problem.

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Would you flat out reject a guy with a shaved head? I'm just curious, looking for women's input.

No not if I liked him other wise..

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Neither is being short a choice.

 

Being stubborn is though. ;)

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The OP sounds like she's describing George from Seinfeld...

 

Look, we have to deal with the cards that God has dealt us...so yeah, men can't control balding. But, come on, work out already...work on what you can do to make yourself attractive.

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The OP sounds like she's describing George from Seinfeld...

 

Look, we have to deal with the cards that God has dealt us...so yeah, men can't control balding. But, come on, work out already...work on what you can do to make yourself attractive.

 

Let me tell you something that shocked me in college.

 

A GORGEOUS girl I had a crush on(and surprisingly, had a crush on me) though that George Constanza was the epitome of sexy. When I asked her why, she said this.

 

"He's bald and funny. But he's so damn comfortable in his awkward skin you can't help but to be happy around him. It's a turn-on."

 

She liked funny guys, bald or not. So while OP may not like them, I know a fine girl who does, and I bet she's not alone.

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She liked funny guys, bald or not. So while OP may not like them, I know a fine girl who does, and I bet she's not alone.

There is the issue. She is not alone while the single girls won't give an inch. I have made so many changes for my preference and I have found meaningful relationships with girls who are bigger than myself girls with no college degree girls out side my race and I could not be happier to have had them in my life

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There is the issue. She is not alone while the single girls won't give an inch. I have made so many changes for my preference and I have found meaningful relationships with girls who are bigger than myself girls with no college degree girls out side my race and I could not be happier to have had them in my life

 

I hear that.

 

Heck, I didn't think she had a crush on me because I thought she was too pretty for me.

 

I was wrong. So, so wrong.

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There is the issue. She is not alone while the single girls won't give an inch. I have made so many changes for my preference and I have found meaningful relationships with girls who are bigger than myself girls with no college degree girls out side my race and I could not be happier to have had them in my life

 

the one thing that I found out in online dating is that the majority of women are either taken or they got a bunch of guys waiting to be the no. 1 draft pick!

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