hawx79 Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 (edited) What would become of someone that has been heart broken numerous times? Can too many broken hearts of someone lead to inability to love again in the future? Edited November 18, 2014 by hawx79
walkingonair Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 People cant control when they fall in love.It just happens. But someone who has has their heart broken many times. Would develop feelings but would be in denial about it and would keep trying to push the feelings away.
Ashley S Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 I have had my heart broken so many times to the point where I have trust issues. I string guys along unintentionally because I see how long they can last just being my friend. Or sometimes I will give in and date the guy, but then I will somehow cut him out or try to ignore him, and then he tries coming back and trying to reconcile. Sometimes I make the best decisions because my friends will inform me about the guy, and what they know about him, or what they found about him, and that I did the right thing, but other times I threw away good guys, and it's all because I am so guarded form past relationships, and even family relationships. Some of my family members betrayed me, so a lot of my issues stem from that too.
Ashley S Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 I don't think you lose your inability to love. No matter what. I think you just become more guarded and protective of yourself, and it will take a lot of building to let that person feel "safe", but no I think you still love. If anything, we do love, we are just afraid of getting hurt. When you're damaged that is when you want love because you feel so low about yourself and feel so sad, and hurt, that you want emotional security and love.
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