Sksmith Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 My ex and I have been on and off for 2.5 years. He's come back to me 3 times. 2 of the three were long apologizes and cute messages. The third time was just asking how I was doing because it's been a while. The first time he came back after 2 weeks, second time was 2 months and third time was 5 months. He just ended it again 3 weeks ago. Today he texted me saying hey how are you? I handled the break up very well and never contacted him again. He said he figured he'd see how things were. Then he just asked me how work was and we had a short conversation about that. Then the conversation stopped. It definitely confused me. Is he trying to get back with me slowly or does he really just want to know how I am? Last time when he asked how I was doing he continued the conversation until he went to sleep. But he also just got dumped so he needed attention from me. This time he just continued the conversation until I just said yup yup. And he never a Answered. I don't get when his motives could be here and it's stressing me out. Advice please!! Link to post Share on other sites
Frogwife Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 I know it's really hard when you love someone, but do you want this kind of roller-coaster turmoil of breakups and makeups in your life by going back for a 4th or 5th round? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sksmith Posted November 18, 2014 Author Share Posted November 18, 2014 no I don't. But its confusing, hes never just asked how I was doing and had a short conversation with me. When he texts me its when he wants me back. Does he not want me back this time? but then why would he text me? Link to post Share on other sites
Justanaverageguy Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 no I don't. But its confusing, hes never just asked how I was doing and had a short conversation with me. When he texts me its when he wants me back. Does he not want me back this time? but then why would he text me? If you don't want that type of relationship .... why are you concerned what he wants.... why are you even replying in the first place ?? Block him and go no contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 Does he not want me back this time? but then why would he text me? If you don't want to go back to a rollercoaster, why are you concerned as to whether he is texting you because he wants you back? Link to post Share on other sites
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