Waiting for the divorce so we can move on with our relationship.

[InLove2]

This is an incredibly complicated story, but I'll do my best to quickly sum it all together.

 

- She was married, I was single.

- We both worked together.

- We started as f*** buddies and friends, but has grown into something very special.

 

- She left her husband about a year and a half ago.

- About 6 months ago, I took another job & moved 450 miles away.

- We are/were madly in love with each other.

- Up until the past month we would always meet halfway and meet on weekends.

- The original plan was for her to move up here early this year.

- She is having trouble coming to an agreement with her Ex.

- She seems very angry and stressed lately and I worry about her.

- Things are probably going to get ugly before a settlement is reached.

- Told me she isn't ready to move up here. Told me she needs space.

- She just got laid off from her job.

- Found another job.

 

She is everything I have ever wanted in a woman. I love her very much & hope that we can work through this difficult time and live happily ever after.

 

I am very much interested in advice from people that have gone through a divorce, or are unhappily married.

[sweetness69]

i am in the same boat as you, me and boyfriend started as friends at our job and then he got fired and i had started liking him, he has always had a crush on me well finally we hooked up and now i really want to move on with him like marriage wise but his wife wont give him a divorce they have been separated for like 5 years now and he has had another kid since her and i wanna know some info too, about divorces without going to court

[Mz. Pixie]

I've just been going through this.

 

It's extremely hurtful and frustrating. Give her some space, she is probably stressed to the max. Not to mention dealing with the ex knowing about you if they do. I was accused of all kinds of things I didn't do.

 

As far as divorces, yes, he can still get one, even if his EX doesn't want to. He doesn't have to have her permission. It varies by state but sometimes you don't even have to go to court, I didn't.