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When I came to this school, she was one of the people I was really close too. It did not matter that she had a boyfriend. That was never my intention. I liked being her friend. That was enough for me. I listened through her issues with boyfriend(now her ex), comforting her through troubles. She was the only person I had lunch with at this school. I loved her company. But ever since she started seeing a new guy, I feel like I don't see her anymore. When I tried to text or called, I got no response. She is a chemical engineering student so I understand her schedule. But I barely try anymore. When she wants to, I will be there. But she told me through Facebook messenger that she is getting the new iphone six, which would take a month to get. But I don't know what to do. should I just leave it how it is or try one more time?

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Do you like her? Since she only started seeing the new guy, why don't you try telling her how you feel. That's the only way to get out of the friend zone.

 

Whatever you're feeling, I think you should try and communicate that to her. It's the only way to get things resolved and It's better than suffering in silence.

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Do you like her? Since she only started seeing the new guy, why don't you try telling her how you feel. That's the only way to get out of the friend zone.

 

Whatever you're feeling, I think you should try and communicate that to her. It's the only way to get things resolved and It's better than suffering in silence.

 

It's not even like that. I care about her as a friend. She was one of the people I am the closest to. She is not the type to just drop off the face of the earth. I want her in my life, romantic or not. But if she does not want me in hers, I will back off. It blows.

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The worst thing you could do is tell her how you feel.

 

What you need to do, is stop being an orbiter, and get your own life OP.

Stand on your own 2, like a grown man.

I dare say, This girl probably knows that you like her, she found some other guy, now, she's trying to stay as far away from you as she can.

- She doesnt respect you, and why would she.

 

Move on

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Some people abandon their friends at the beginning of a new romance when they are spending all their time with the new SO.

 

I'd back off. Spend your time making new friends. She might pop back up when the newness of her relationship wears off.

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