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I don't get that 'zing' from dating anymore?


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Use to wear my heart on my sleeve, use to love the chase, use to love dating. Then I went through a series of bad rejections. Looked on the positive and saw I needed to make some improvements in my life. Focused on my career; starting to make good money, focused on my hobbies; excelling at them and having fun; focused on myself and sorted out my hygiene, dress sharp and well and I carry myself pretty alright now. Most noticibly I hit the gym hard. I'm now the lean like you see celebrities when they are playing super hero/ gladiator roles.

 

Not surprisingly people/ woman started to take notice. I could hear the whispers, the signs of interest etc. I started dating more but things have changed. I don't feel that 'zing' feeling anymore i.e. when your heart races when the chick you like walks into the room; essentially the spark. I now find more pleasure in other things than woman.

 

Hence I've gotten tired of dating. Yet I want to date, I want a relationship but see a girl could start messaging me or I message her or even take her out on a date but after, I'd not be bothered about returning a call etc. Many a girl of high interests have wondered why and even asked me what went wrong.

 

What's wrong with me?

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Yea I'm going through the same thing it's boring actually,I've got a bf and some other guy wants to date,but I find the whole thing boring.

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Nothing is wrong with you.

Youve reached the point where you are searching for a QUALITY woman, not just any woman. Because youve become a quality man.

 

Now a woman compliments your life, she doesnt rule it.

 

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