lifeiscrazy10 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 So me and the ex broke up about 4 months ago, we were going to do a long distance relationship because we were both going into crazy grad school programs far apart, but had some problems and I broke up with her and tried to get back with her but she did not want to. We broke up for a variety of reasons but mostly because she was emotionally distant and I had found out she was talking to a best friend of hers who she also dated several years ago. Anyways, we were talking for about a month after the break up and she would text me very late at night and she called me very late at night after not talking for a while. She said she kind of missed me and was remembering all out fun times. The next night she texted me again and said she possibly had a very serious illness and I woke up to that and texted her and didn't hear anything, being worried I called her and she said it was "possible" but it was t clear she said she was just lonely and scared and wanted me to be there for her. I asked her why she told me she had this illness and she did not really say. Anyways, we didn't talk for a week because I was slightly upset she did that, I then checked a social media app and found that one of the people she was communicating with was the guy she was talking to that we got into an argument about during the relationship...I was really mad and at that point I deleted her and all remnants of her from Facebook and we have not spoken since, I would like to talk to her but I have not and it's been almost 3 months, should I leave it? Will we ever speak again? I miss her and want to see how she is doing but should I keep NC?
lemonsugar Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 You were the one to break up with her. You cant be surprised if there is someone else in the picture now. Do you think any good will come out of contacting her? Some times its best to say nothing as it sounds like you both have moved on some what.
Author lifeiscrazy10 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 Thank you for the reply, she broke up with me about 6 months prior and I had to contact her and we got back together, we were good until then and now I find myself thinking about her a lot, I just don't know what to do...
lemonsugar Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Thank you for the reply, she broke up with me about 6 months prior and I had to contact her and we got back together, we were good until then and now I find myself thinking about her a lot, I just don't know what to do... you need to let her dp the running. She may not be the one for you or wrong time wrong place. Keep going with NC it will get better
lemonsugar Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Thanks, I guess I will its not easy trust me but its better for you long term as they say what will be will be
Author lifeiscrazy10 Posted November 18, 2014 Author Posted November 18, 2014 This is still bothering me, I just cut it off so quickly, it was without warning, and we have not talked since, and at that point we were starting to talk again...any other input?
Author lifeiscrazy10 Posted November 19, 2014 Author Posted November 19, 2014 Am I looking at this wrong? Is she clearly over it if I haven't heard from her this long?
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