Georgia2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 I had a first date yesterday and the guy was nice but I am not attracted to him. Should I see him again? I'm torn on what to do.
central Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 No. Unless you think attraction will grow, then you'll be wasting his time and yours, and worst case you'll "see the good in him" and settle for far less than you want, which usually leads to serious problems. 1
Author Georgia2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 No. Unless you think attraction will grow, then you'll be wasting his time and yours, and worst case you'll "see the good in him" and settle for far less than you want, which usually leads to serious problems. Thank you deep down I knew that was the answer but I needed someone to also say it. 1
stillafool Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 I had a first date yesterday and the guy was nice but I am not attracted to him. Should I see him again? I'm torn on what to do. No don't see him again. Do not waste his time and money if you aren't attracted to him. Why are you torn if you aren't attracted?
leavesonautumn Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 I was in this position in the summer. I went on a date with this guy but something was just missing. Apparently, he didn't feel the same so he asked me out again. I went because I figured I may as well give it a shot, maybe the atmosphere of going to a loud pub hindered the first date. I regretted it basically as soon as he picked me up. He even tried to kiss me at some point during the movie and it was super awkward. After the date, he asked me out AGAIN. At that point, I had to tell him it wasn't going to go anywhere. So, no, don't go out with him again. If you're torn, it means there's a reason you don't want to go and you shouldn't ignore it.
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