Peggy92 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 (edited) I met this guy and we went on a date once. He asked me on a date one more time but I had to cancel because something came up. I texted him after two weeks (I know it was a mistake to wait that long) and he seemed ok to go out with me sometime. He texted after a few days to go out with him and when I said that I could go out with him after I finish some stuff I had to do he said that he wanted to go to bed early because he had to wake up early. After that i asked him out twice. The first time he said that he would be with a friend but he wanted me to come with them, after a couple of hours he cancelled our plans saying that they wouldn't go out that night (I found out that they went out that night a few days later because a friend of mine saw him). I thought that they may wanted to talk privately. After a few days I texted him again and he said that he was too tired to go out tonight. It's been five days and he has not texted me. I think he is inexperienced with the whole dating thing. I don't want to be too pushy. He seemed eager to go out with me and now he is not. He is driving me crazy. What should I do? Thank you in advance (Sorry for my english) Edited November 17, 2014 by Peggy92
elaine567 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 I met this guy and we went on a date once. He asked me on a date one more time but I had to cancel because something came up. I texted him after two weeks (I know it was a mistake to wait that long) and he seemed ok to go out with me sometime. He texted after a few days to go out with him and when I said that I could go out with him after I finish some stuff I had to do he said that he wanted to go to bed early because he had to wake up early. After that i asked him out twice. The first time he said that he would be with a friend but he wanted me to come with them, after a couple of hours he cancelled our plans saying that they wouldn't go out that night (I found out that they went out that night a few days later because a friend of mine saw him). I thought that they may wanted to talk privately. After a few days I texted him again and he said that he was too tired to go out tonight. It's been five days and he has not texted me. I don't want to be too pushy. He seemed eager to go out with me and now he is not. He is driving me crazy. What should I do? Thank you in advance (Sorry for my english) Take the hint. You have asked him so many times and he has brushed you off each time and even lied to you. Forget about him, he is not worth it. 2
Elle1975 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 "something came up", as in? I mean it feels like you gave him a weak excuse, and didn't bother contacting him for another two weeks after that. I think you're getting a taste of your own medicine, and he has since moved on. Id do the same.
Author Peggy92 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 My aunt needed my help that day and then i got sick. This is why I could not go out with him. And I told him the truth.
d0nnivain Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Peggy Life happens. You had your priorities in order. The two week gap was probably not your best move but you tried to make it up to him. Alas he no longer seems open to that. The fact that he lied screams volumes. Let him go.
Author Peggy92 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 Thank you very much for your advices. I will let it go and move on.
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