portugalsad Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Hello So me and my ex girlfriend we dated for 2,5 years, last couple of months of the relationship i wasnt giving her enought atention due to work but i still loved her!!!! BTW im 27 years old and she is 20. So she broke up with me ( 3 months ago), and immediately started seing this kid ( he is 19), and a month later started dating him!!! As you imagine i was devasted, cryed, beged, talked to all her friends etc.... But i managed to go cold turky on her this past 1,5 months, well her realtionship looked great ( acording to her posts on facebook), but i got a text from her asking me for a coffe, and i was like da **** she wants o.O? went to her facebook just to notice that on this day that she asked me out she deleted her relationship status that she was dating this kid,( btw i wtill lover her like crazy!!!!), So i send her a text just saying: we can schedule a coffe!! She repplied with just a smile and that was it!!! 2 days later she is dating the kid again, honeymoon stage all over again!!! as you can imagine i was devasted ( got my hope high). But something else happened, she sent me a facebook invitation to a party, and just to troll her i acpeted ( i wasnt planing to go), on the night of the party she went with a really good friend of mine thats also a friend of hers, and this friend of mine told me that she talked about me all the time, that she was so ansious to see me and that she wanted to dance with other guys whem i show up just to make me jealous, and also she was sad that her boyfriend wanst there because i would be even more jealous. She said to my friend that she just wanted to see me just to see if im doing fine but at the same time she tells her that she wants to me make me jealous, and acording to my firend she was refreshing my facebook during all night just to see if i canceled my invitation!! Its 5 in the morning and see text me saying that she hoped to to see me in the party, and we will see each other another time! Acording to my friend she is confused, cause she still has some feelling towards me!! But whats the points of making me jelous? She dumped me, she has a boyfriend ( acording to her facebook posts she loves him) and i was dumped, i was devasted and im still single lol, so theres no reasons for her to behave like that!!! What do you guys think?? Btw today she posted another romantic post about her boyfriend , 2 days after this party
bubbaganoosh Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Boy you really know how to pick em'. Look friend, throw this one back in the water. Your 27 and a grown man, go find yourself a grown up woman instead of some kid that hasn't grown up yet. Just by what she said to your buddy, she still has a high school mentality. Truth be told she's an embarrassment.
Chi townD Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Okay...Let me break this down to you. 1. She dumped you for a 19 y/o kid. 2. She's a kid herself. If your in the states, she can't even get into a bar or club. 3. She probably got in an argument with her boyfriend and deleted her relationship status on Facebook. She wanted to meet for coffee to make him jealous. She was going to use you, but her boyfriend probably kissed her ass and all was right in the universe again. Sent you back to the gutter. 4. She invited you to the party with only the sole purpose was to make you jealous. She's playing stupid immature games. She LOVES the attention and she doesn't care who she hurts to get what she wants. My advice to you, let this one go. Knowing what you know now, any future invitations from her is to hurt you and make you jealous. Look to date someone closer to your own age. Someone that's more mature and isn't interested in playing stupid games. 2
Rainah Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Wow, I don't know why you would still be interested in this one! She sounds like an immature headcase! I suggest you completely do NC with this girl, delete her number, email, facebook, everything, if you ever bump into her tell her you are doing great, show no signs of weakness, jealousy or crumble in front of her. Be on the higher pedestal than her. I think your lucky you dodged the bullet here, if she wants to date kids with the same mentality as her then let her, find a girl your age or with the same mentality as yourself.
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