Jc12345 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Basically your standard story of things going good then falling apart. Met this girl had a great time together and had amazing sex. We saw each other for just a few weeks and she introduced me to all her friends and such. Things seemed to be moving fast. Then all of a sudden things change and basically we haven't spoken since. Not sure what I did wrong but it's almost like she despises me.
Mrin Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Another dude is my guess. Honestly? I'd confront her about it and ask what changed or what's up. If it get a wishy washy answer move on without looking back.
MercuryMorrison1 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 My last girlfriend behaved in essentially a near identical manner. Her and I met...First 6 months of our relationship was amazing, the sex was great, she was always interested in doing things together, gave me random phone calls and texts regularly just say I love you and all that crap... ...But come month 7 and boom, I mean literally it was a punch in the face...She practically just fell off the face of the earth for no reason. For several months I tried to figure out what was wrong, why things were going down hill so rapidly, but alas, my efforts were in vain. Every time I did manage to get her to answer her phone she always had some excuse to not see each other, or an excuse as to why she's not answering the phone or returning calls, finally I was forced to eat it the relationship and move on with life, even to this day her and I have had no ''official breakup'' but I've stopped putting effort into remaining in contact with her as she had done months ago. Back on the market again! Anyway, I don't know how fresh your relationship was but she probably just flat lost interest in trying to make it work. If you can't get her to communicate with you at all, than she probably has no interest in ever communicating again, but is simply to afraid to tell you that she feels that way. Sadly most people are to afraid of confrontation to just come out and say how they feel. But nine times outta ten that's the best way handle things, to just be direct.
Elle1975 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Well maybe you had amazing sex but she didn't? I dated a guy like that once.. he presented himself as someone he really wasn't. After realizing it, things went down hill. Or she simply had an ex she was trying to forget? I mean who knows? The important thing is not to dwell on it. No need to become the sad droopy ex.
Author Jc12345 Posted November 16, 2014 Author Posted November 16, 2014 Thanks for the input. I knew it was amazing because of the obvious physical signs she displayed. Anyways at first she was the one rushing things, saying we'd be great together like only after a week of knowing each other. Then Boom all down the drain. Back then I didn't really like her. I think my biggest mistake was starting to like her and that caused her to lose interest. She even said no other guy was ever so good to her like I was. I think she just enjoyed being mistreated rather than feeling "safe". 1
Zippy2000 Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 You havent told us longblong your dating lasted for.
Jules Dash Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 She even said no other guy was ever so good to her like I was. I think she just enjoyed being mistreated rather than feeling "safe". No one enjoys being mistreated. Many think this and miss the point when it comes to attraction. I almost cringe when I hear a guy say this when I am talking one on one with him. Attraction is dynamic. There are certain things that are attractive to women but their sum is greater than their parts. Some men get sold on the idea that if they imitate a bad boy that somehow the women will start flocking to them and it never really happens when they do because they are still missing the forest for the trees. Women want to be treated well. The really do but you have to treat them well without doing things that make you less attractive or turn them off. One of the things is trying to chase them down for an explanation of why they lost interest when they are trying to walk away from you quietly. Yes, I know it is a cowardly move for the woman you was dating to just walk away without giving you an explanation and it seems like you guys made it to the point where you deserve an explanation but learn to live without the explanation. It will chew at you for a bit but then it will fade away and you will eventually be sleeping with someone else. If you just try to continue to contact her she will just be more turned off and become annoyed by you. Just take the hint and walk in the other direction.
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