thehanes Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 two weeks ago my 7 month girlfriend broke up with em for someone else. some dude she has known for a few years. she said she liked me but didnt see us getting married and said she sees the other guy as her future husband its been tough for me to get over this. what are some good steps to take to get over it
Mcnulty Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 She liked you, didn't love you maybe? Well that's her loss. You can't fit with everyone you fall for, law of averages doesn't allow this. She left you for someone else. if you got back together you'd be paranoid and insecure...do you want to be that person? It's a no brainer.
StrangerThanFiction Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 two weeks ago my 7 month girlfriend broke up with em for someone else. some dude she has known for a few years. she said she liked me but didnt see us getting married and said she sees the other guy as her future husband its been tough for me to get over this. what are some good steps to take to get over it I know exactly how you feel, OP. My ex did this to me. Twice. Think I'd learn after the first time, huh? Anyway, I'm not going to lie to you and tell you there's a quick fix to feeling better about this right away. It's going to hurt for awhile. Do know that with time and distance it will fade. Focus on yourself and realize that just because she didn't view you as a future husband it doesn't mean no one else will. Keep busy, maintain NC, and know that you are good enough, she just wasn't the right person for you. Chin up, mate.
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