Rainah Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 So I'm going to try keep this short, He moved on, has a new girlfriend, has been with her for about a month now, when I found out he got a new girlfriend I blocked and deleted him on everything or so I thought. She is a suicidal mess, he contacted me through facebook (on a different account) reaching out to me telling me he still loves me and wants me back, I fell into the trap by talking to him again and trying to be a 'friend' in hope that maybe we might reconnect with each other again whether that's friendship or more. I still have feelings for him but the bridges are obviously burned relationship and friendship wise, I see this but its hard for me to accept this as a true fact. He started acting possessive and jealous (like he did when we were dating) even though he is still with her, he keeps saying he hasn't moved on, her facebook shows kissy happy photos of them and says they are in a relationship together, this isn't moved on according to him? I gave him a goodbye message a few minuets ago and blocked before he could have the last word, now I'm back in no contact with him for the 2nd time, this time I plan to follow through with it by never talking to him again and knowing this hurts more than ever. I would like some support and help throughout my process, just a place to rant and get feelings off my chest
Mi7522 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 You have to go NC in order for you to feel indifferent to him. When you continuously interact with him you are tearing the scab off and starting at square one. Take time for yourself as hard as it can be and you will slowly start realizing that you don't need him in your life. Be strong, be confident and most of all be you! 1
jackinthebox1 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Going NC is such a no brainer. Whenever you last have contact you start at day 1 of the agony and pain. You have to go through that. It may feel better in the moment having contact but thats short term pleasure and will lead to much longer hurt process. Im 2.5 weeks in and feeling much better. Still have bad days but i can feel myself accepting and moving on, and forgetting that person. You have to realise that its over, what you had is gone and its time to heal 1
Author Rainah Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 Thanks everyone, he messaged me on facebook with another account (no idea how many he has) asking me to unblock him. It hurts so much not to respond but I know its for the best.
HeatOfTheMoment Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 Thanks everyone, he messaged me on facebook with another account (no idea how many he has) asking me to unblock him. It hurts so much not to respond but I know its for the best. The best thing to do is delete your facebook temporarily. You can always activate it in the future. If he has the heart to leave someone who loves him and be with someone else. It's most likely going to happen again when you get with him. Make sure his number is blocked. If he finds a way to get to you again, just delete it. It's going to bother you for sometime, but it's for the better.
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