sbradford2 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 My ex used me. We got back together for a couple of weeks after him saying that we need eachother and that he loves me and so on. I still love him and miss him so I decided to be with him again. We spent time together and he spent the night a few times and we were intimate (protected of course). Since I was off work that Saturday I thought that he would spend time with me but he was with his sister all day and I felt like I wasnt good enough or something. Out of the blue the other day I asked him if he was still talking to other women and he said "why are you asking me that"? I knew right then that he still was and that he wasnt going to be faithful to me. Why would he get back with me knowing that he wasnt going to be faithful? Do I not deserve it? Well we have children together and out of the blue he will call me and start talking about his job and other things. I am so hurt right now. He called this morning and asked to speak to the kids and that was it. He didnt even bother having a conversation with me. I asked him why would he get back with me and tell me that he was going to do right only to let me down. He said that he was busy and to call him later. He never has time for me. Why am I not good enough?
WhatWeHad Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 First things first: you are good enough! You deserve so much better than someone who can't make up their mind about what they want or who they want to be with. Your kids deserve better than this too. I know you may want back what you once had but it doesn't seem to exist anymore. It's time to keep your contact only to things having to do with your kids, nothing more. This is not treatment you deserve or should stand for.
Mr Scorpio Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 The actions of your ex are not a reflection of your self-worth. They are a reflection of who he is as a person. It is one thing to emotionally toss-and-turn with a single person. But when children are involved? The unfortunate part is that you will have to maintain a modicum of contact with him because of the children. The fortunate part is that you found this site, where there are plenty of people who will lend an ear and advice as needed.
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