lawbstar Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 (edited) I was with my ex for about two years before she broke up with me about 4 weeks ago for silly reasons. She basically told me that she felt as though school was coming before her for me (she is 18, and I am 19 but she does not go to school anymore). I do miss what we had, but our relationship was not perfect. She never trusted me with other girls. She was also too demanding and controlling sometimes. We have very different views on life. She does not know where she will end up because she does not seem to have a plan for the future whereas I plan everything I do. Also, she never really talked to me about her feelings during our time together while I prefer to speak my mind. Here is an example of a recent memory that was very difficult to go through at the time: It was this past summer, and my friend invited me to his birthday party just to hang out with friends and get together. He originally only invited me, and I did not know what to do because I knew that my ex would not really want me to go (because there would be other girls there), so I ended up asking my friend if I could take my girlfriend along even though I did not really want to because I felt that she would be like a killjoy there (and she was). Before we went to his party that night, my ex and I decided that we would not stay long because I was up since 4am that day for work and she was tired. Then, after a little while, while we are there, this girl from my highschool that I do not know very well needed to go home, but it was late at night and she was going to bus home, so I thought that we could sort of use her as a scape goat (we could take her home and leave after that) and I did not want her to go home alone so late at night. However, I knew that my girlfriend would not want me to drive another girl home, but at the same time, I did not want to let the girl bus home alone so late. That was eating me up inside a little bit because I did not know what to do. My friend's mom ended up driving her home, and I was really mad about myself for that because if I drove her home, then my friend's mom could have went to sleep instead of stay up so late to drive home a friend. After that, my friend's were comparing their butt sizes just for kicks. I was not necessarily looking at my friend's (who was a girl) butt. I was just trying to have a good time with my friends. However, when we left, my ex blew up on me and said, "If all you're going to do is look at a slut's ass, then don't ask me to come next time." Then, after that, I could not sleep because she was so angry with me and I was still angry at myself for letting my friend's mom stay up late and I felt overwhelmed by what was going on. I am having a somewhat hard time deciding whether I still want to be with my ex or not. Please let me know what your opinions are. Edited November 16, 2014 by lawbstar
No Limit Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Alright big boy, big news. Being someone's boyfriend doesn't equal to being someone's property, you still have certain freedoms. And someone so insecure that she'll blow up over every little thing - sorry, but she's not ready for a relationship yet. Better luck with your next girlfriend.
dumbass2 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 The fact that you don't know and are not sure should tell you. If you really want to try and get back with someone you had a relationship with, you better be 100% certain in your mind and heart that that is what you want. Just let her go because it doesn't sound good. move on and date other girls and you'll find a much better match.
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